Second, avoid small groups. There are always some good friends who study and live in a class group, but they avoid long-term contact with several good classmates and don't get along with others. Especially when there is a contradiction between the interests of small groups and collective interests, class collective interests should be given priority and individual small collective interests should be abandoned.
Three bogey unfair comparison. When students communicate, they will inevitably compare. The key is to compare what is ambition, what is self-confidence and what is vanity. If it is better than ideological progress and learning progress, this is of course good; But if it is better than matter, it is not desirable.
Four avoid gossiping. Students should be cautious in getting along with each other and gossiping behind their backs, which is the most taboo thing among students. The correct way is not to pass it on or say it. When you hear what others say, you should carefully analyze the truth, and don't be credulous and blindly follow.
Five taboos: talking hurts people. A good word warms spring, but a bad word hurts June. We should consciously cultivate the ability to respect others, speak gently, pay attention to the beauty of language, and avoid being self-righteous, insulting and hurting people.
Six taboos are poor imitation. The communication between classmates should help each other in the progress of both sides. If you live with the lame, you will learn to limp. Be good at making friends, learn to choose, and treat others sincerely.
Ways to avoid quarreling with classmates
Silent avoidance. Wait patiently for the other person to finish or divert your attention to avoid getting angry, and you may avoid a quarrel.
Humor is golden. If the fuse of the quarrel between the two sides is about to be lit, if one side can change the tense atmosphere with humorous words, it is the most effective way to avoid the quarrel.
Calm down. When the words between the two sides are fierce and there is bound to be a quarrel, you might as well learn to be calm and natural, and try to lower your voice and speed. Looking at the problem from the other side's point of view, the quarrel may not continue.
Make reasonable concessions. In most cases, arguing with others can't really convince the other side, but it will make the other side stick to their own views more. Making reasonable concessions in a quarrel is conducive to resolving the quarrel.
Talk about things. When arguing, don't dig up old scores, don't dwell on the past, expose people's shortcomings, and don't make personal attacks and insulting language attacks on others.