Ordinary friends may be ambiguous. Ordinary friends may be ambiguous, because in fact, as long as the other person is not ugly or likes the same sex, the two opposite sex contacts are based on a good impression. Many people approach each other in the name of friends, even secretly love each other, but because they are not sure about each other's wishes, they are afraid that they will not even make friends in a showdown, and they all silently accompany each other as friends. How to judge whether two people are having an affair? 1. Determine the degree of contact between two people. In fact, when two people are having an affair, there will still be many stages. For example, when they first started having an affair, there wouldn't be too many traces. I can see that, but when they have been having an affair for a long time, then we can't just see from their chat that two people have been in love for a long time. You can also see from many dressing styles that if you like each other, you will always know each other's preferences uncontrollably, and then you will have the same preferences with him, so that you can determine to what extent two people have been in contact and how long they have been ambiguous. Second, see if there are any ambiguous words in the chat records of two people. From the chat records of two people, it is also easy to judge whether two people have ambiguous feelings, because we all know that when two people are in the ambiguous stage, they don't actually say something straightforward like lovers, but they don't just talk about boring topics every day like ordinary friends. On the contrary, they will choose some interesting things in their lives to share with each other, but at the same time they will also have some flirting words with each other, which will bring them closer to each other and let them know that they actually have some different emotions. Third, see if two people will be jealous because of each other's behavior. There is also a very accurate way to judge whether they are in an ambiguous stage, that is, to do some ambiguous actions with other opposite sex to see if the other party will be jealous. If the other person is really jealous because of some of your actions, then it can be explained that the other person's feelings for you are not just ordinary friends, because if you are ordinary friends, you will not feel unhappy because of some of your actions at all. Only lovers are jealous because of some details, so this is a very accurate method. Can two ordinary friends be ambiguous? Between men and women, if these four things are done too much, the relationship will no longer be normal! Don't pretend you don't know 1. Two people often have dinner or watch movies together. In fact, if it's just ordinary friends watching movies or eating, it's nothing. However, if two people often do things that only lovers can do, then the relationship between you really goes beyond the relationship of ordinary friends. It's just that neither of them said anything Although we are brothers, we certainly don't think so in our hearts. Otherwise, how can you often do these things that only couples can do together, so the relationship between them is very clear. Are you still pretending not to know? 2. We will always share our secrets with each other. "Everyone has such a place in his heart that others can't get in or out." Therefore, in everyone's life journey, there will be more or less some private secrets that only belong to themselves and are not known to others. Even the best friend will not easily penetrate such a secret. However, if there is a man or a woman, he or she will take the initiative to mention these to you. Obviously, he (she) must regard you as more important than ordinary friends, and has already regarded you as himself. I think you can understand the meaning of this! 3. When two people get along, there will be some ambiguous lives. There are many men or women who are brothers on the surface, but they like each other at heart. Although they said nothing, their behavior was honest. When two people walk together, there will always be some intimate actions, which will easily make others think that this is a couple. However, they will always be friends, and no one wants to take the initiative to pierce this enough paper between you. Relationships like this are not common anymore, but I just don't want to admit it. Even the secret of the other party's mobile phone is known, and the other party will not have any opinions without scruple. For people nowadays, mobile phones are relatively private things, and even friends will not easily give her their secrets. Even if friends know the secret, they won't let friends browse their mobile phones casually. Therefore, when men and women get along, the other party will let you look through his mobile phone, which shows that the relationship between you is not normal. The relationship is so clear, but you still stubbornly don't want to say it first. Can two ordinary friends be ambiguous? How to judge whether friends of the opposite sex are good or ambiguous? 1. First of all, the body is the most honest. If there is physical contact between the opposite sex, it means that your relationship tends to be ambiguous. But if two people don't feel physical contact, then you are undoubtedly "good brothers". In fact, ambiguity is like a veil between love and friendship. To put it bluntly, I am doing my lover's thing as a friend. I believe that in everyone's circle of friends, there will be someone you admire and you have a good relationship with him. You will pay close attention to everything about him. Similarly, he is special to you. Casual physical contact will make both sides feel happy. But because of too many familiarity and face problems, no one wants to break this situation. Over time, both of them feel that this state is ideal, which will not break the original living atmosphere, but also enjoy the "special happiness" brought by ambiguity. On the contrary, if it is only a simple heterosexual relationship and physical contact, neither side will feel anything. Because each other regards each other as their own homosexuality, naturally there will be no other ideas. A simple heterosexual relationship is a simple friendship between friends, depending on how you choose to face pure friendship. So, when you don't know if you and the other person are just good friends or have an ambiguous purpose. You can try to hold hands and hug to see how it feels. Secondly, eyes are the window through which people express their feelings implicitly. If your eyes are always gentle or confused. Then you who are not lovers can only be ambiguous. Because they are just good friends of the opposite sex, their eye contact is pure and decisive. When words can't be expressed, eyes become the best communication tool. Between the ambiguous opposite sex, eye contact becomes lingering and dramatic. Many friends and incomplete lovers are ambiguous. Ambiguity is the result of successful love for those who play with feelings, but it is undoubtedly suffering for those who take feelings seriously. Just like the lyrics in Rainie Yang's Ambiguity, ambiguity makes people feel wronged, and they can't find evidence of love. When to move forward and when to give up, they don't even have the courage to hug. Those heterosexual people who are good at using ambiguous relationships can catch this ambiguous veil with their eyes, but they will constantly seduce you at the other end of the veil without taking the initiative to puncture it. One look from him can make you faithful and infatuated. And those who are honest and simple in front of feelings will see their own ideas in their eyes, but they will also choose to dodge when they really face them. In this way, the ambiguity between the opposite sex will become endless, even if you are uncomfortable, you don't want to be brave. On the other hand, those heterosexual friends who have simple relationships are more tacit, and you know what I mean in their eyes. This is the result of getting along for a long time and getting to know each other. I believe that by making eye contact with each other, you can probably determine whether you are good friends or the third kind of ambiguous relationship. Finally, the distance between them is also a good way to distinguish the opposite sex. The relationship between good friends of the opposite sex can be near or far. Because, near and far are all the same to them, and there won't be much difference. The relationship between them is close enough, so the news from outside has no influence on them at all. For those ambiguous friends of the opposite sex, distance is like an insurmountable rule. Because, once this line is crossed, the relationship between them may have undergone a qualitative change. Therefore, controlling the distance will make their behavior a bit strange. Distance is like a bridge, on which close friends of the opposite sex can play without fear. The ambiguous opposite sex may have drifted to the other side, but the body is deadlocked. There are essential differences between pure heterosexual good friends and ambiguous heterosexual, both in behavior and thought. When you can distinguish the relationship between the two well, then if you work harder, ambiguity may evolve into lovers. In the idea of being lovers, you can never be friends. If you are interested in each other, go for it bravely, and there may be unexpected results. However, if you can only be friends with the opposite sex, don't sprout other ideas, or you may not even be friends in the end. Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. So you can tell whether you belong to a good friend or are intentionally ambiguous by your words and deeds.