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These days, once you are single, you become single dog.
So, how much is this legend worth? Kochi? A talented young financier.
What kind of experience is falling in love?
Case 1
A girl published an article about marriage on the classified information website Craiglist. She thinks she is amazing, elegant and tasteful, and wants to find a boyfriend with an annual salary of $500,000 to live a happy life in new york Central Park West.
A guy who claimed to be an industrial investment consultant in JPMorgan Chase answered this question:
"From a businessman's point of view, marrying you is a bad decision. The reason is clear. Aside from the details, what you are talking about is actually a simple transaction of "wealth" and "appearance": Party A provides an extraordinary appearance, and Party B pays for it, and the transaction is fair and just. However, there is a fatal problem here. Your beauty will disappear, but my money will not be reduced for no reason. In fact, my income is likely to increase year by year, and you can't be beautiful year by year.
So from an economic point of view, I am a value-added asset, and you are a depreciating asset, which not only devalues, but also accelerates depreciation! Now that you are 25 years old, you can still maintain a slim figure and handsome appearance in the next five years, although it will drop slightly every year. But beauty will die faster and faster. If it is your only asset, your value will be very worrying after ten years.
On Wall Street, every transaction has a position, and what is associated with you is a "trading position". Once the value falls, you should sell it immediately, not hold it for a long time-that is, the marriage you want. This sounds cruel, but for a material that will accelerate the depreciation, the wise choice is to rent it, not buy it. People who earn more than 500 thousand a year are definitely not fools, so we will only associate with you and will not marry you.
Case 2
I do business at the front desk. Generally, I don't travel often except for meetings, so I have to travel. Unlike investment banks, I don't travel so often. Even if I travel for a long time, I have traveled at least once a month on average.
My girlfriend (now upgraded to a wife) and I are in a different place, which is also cross-border. I am in the mainland and she is in Hong Kong. It's hard. There's a lot of pressure to make a deal.
There are several ways to do this, and skype video is similar.
Follow the drama together (download it first and then synchronize the story together at a fixed time), and then spit it out together.
More importantly, try to go out to play together during the holidays, find a place close to both and meet there.
I can't accept being sent away, so I usually fly back by the back plane.
Zhihu: Song Siyuan
Case 3
My boyfriend is an investment banker and I am an auditor. We talked for a year and a half ...
He is a senior and I am a junior. He chased me first, chased me for a long time, fell in love seriously, and took me home to see his parents the next week after the talk.
Love experience is that you are here on business and I am there on business.
He is higher in rank and more responsible than me. Although I am busy, he is busier than me. The base is in a city, but he can only meet once every two weeks. As long as he doesn't leave the project, he spends 99.99% of his time with me.
There was an argument. When the phone screen is black, I can't get in touch for half a month. Really busy.
It is also because he often quarrels when he can't reply to messages in a hurry. After a frank communication, he realized that he didn't care about me when he was busy at ordinary times, but he felt that I had been quarreling with him, and he had to keep his mood stable at ordinary times, otherwise things would be endless, and that would be even more endless. Actually, I just want him to spend more time with me. Later, I agreed not to disturb him at ordinary times, and he also promised to call several times a day for a short time, which is progressing smoothly at present.
Recently, I was caught with a bad job, and I was still in a cold war with him. Later, he found out! Angry than me! I'm really angry, not pretending. Let me tell the leader! Leaders don't care! We'll quit! Go home. He raised me! I thought I was so handsome! Be dragged ... to meet people at a critical moment. So, I appreciate it.
Three servings of dog food, Hiccup ~ I'm so full for Qixi dinner.
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