First of all, this person has no problem with his personality. He is an honest man, not the kind of lazy person. If your family can afford him to eat, you can let him eat. No one has the cheek to eat. He must be in trouble. He will repay you when he has a chance in the future. Talk to your wife. If your wife really doesn't want to, you really can't take it home. I cook for you because my wife loves you!