Just because a boy often chats with this girl does not necessarily mean he likes her. Don’t position the relationship with the opposite sex as whether he likes me or he doesn’t like me. How tiring it is.

Generally speaking, if a boy always chats with you, then he definitely doesn’t hate you. But is the relationship between people other than dislike or like? Apparently not. Here we assume two situations. 1. He may be a social person and loves to make friends. 2. He may also think you are interesting and want to have more communication with you.

So if it is 1, a lot of girls will jump out and call the scumbag at this time. It’s better not to wear this kind of hat randomly. There are only two genders in this world, male and female. If you think a "good boy" should only hang out with people of the same sex and should not have friends of the opposite sex.

Then do you also think that a good girl should only play with girls and should not have male friends? So you can no longer make friends of the opposite sex in your life? Are you going to give up on half the people on earth?

So if it’s 2, he didn’t say that he likes you but doesn’t like you. But here you can be sure that he has a crush on you. A good impression may turn into liking, or it may slowly disappear after getting to know someone better. If you fall in love with this boy just because he chats with you. That's mostly a mentality of seeking verification.

Because you have already assumed in your heart that he likes you. Then keep looking for evidence to prove that he likes you. As a result, you are irredeemable. However, when you come back to your senses, you find that the other person doesn't mean that at all, or that he still has a good impression of you. So your mood fluctuates, and you come to Zhihu to ask questions, hoping to find out any clues that he likes you.

Dear girl, you need to be braver and more confident. Like someone not because he likes you. But you like him. Stop asking for confirmation. If he doesn't talk to you in the first place, will he be the one to attract you? Do you like him because you already assumed that he liked you, but it turned out to be reversed, or because he is really your ideal type? These are questions you need to think clearly about.