This is a step back from the times. Today's young people are free to fall in love, so there is no choice for their parents. This program has overturned the previous method of young people choosing each other. At the beginning, the parents choose, and the guests retreat to the second line. The parents of the male and female guests have a direct dialogue and have full power to decide on the possibility of marriage. The parents who are interested in the woman can express their wishes by lighting up a light. If the woman is favored by more than three groups of families, she can enter the stage of counter-election of female guests. During this period, the male guest communicated with his parents over the phone and had the right to light up the scene; the woman finally decided on her favorite family and then held hands with the male guest. That is to say, the female guests do not know what the male guests look like when they choose them.

The male and female guests on this show were chosen by their parents before they met, which feels like a step back in time. In today's society, most people fall in love and get married freely. This approach of putting the ancient marriage method of "parents' orders and matchmaker's words" back on the table seems to be contrary to the times. What really made some viewers feel "emotionally explosive" was later. In the first episode of the program, some parents of male guests talked about the criteria for choosing a daughter-in-law, such as "convenient childbirth", "working at home", "taking care of their son" and other conditions. Ignore women's proper place in the family.