I think the most important thing to truly make friends is sincerity and congeniality.

Needless to say sincerity, if a person does not have a sincere heart towards his friends, it will be difficult for such a person to make real friends. You must understand that if you treat others with a hypocritical attitude, others will I'm not a fool. I can be deceived by you once or twice, but I won't let you deceive me a third time. I rely on hypocrisy to make friends. All I make are fair-weather friends, because others will treat you in a hypocritical way. . Some people may say, I have thousands of friends, but when you are in trouble, you will know that out of these thousands of friends, how many of them are your real friends, and they are all for profit. partner.

As for personality, I think it is really important. Only friends with similar personalities can speak the same language and understand each other. Take me as an example. I am a relatively introverted person. I feel cold and taciturn. In fact, I know what kind of person I am. I have a straight personality and a clear distinction between likes and dislikes. In life and work, I am introverted to people with different like-minded views. I have a personality that talks less and does more, and I don’t want to engage in unnecessary arguments or hypocrisy. Therefore, I have fewer friends in my daily life, but it does not mean that I have no friends. Some of my friends have remained the same for decades, even if I have less contact with them. , we don’t distinguish between you and me when we get together. The people I work with now are my uncle and his brother. They have been together for five or six years and are very close. We are of the same age and have similar experiences. We usually work very well together. Be happy. No matter what thoughts you have, we never hide them. Everyone’s purpose is very clear. We all want to make money together. We won’t be bored or care about who will suffer because you took advantage. With like-minded friends, I think it is a kind of enjoyment to do things together.

Really making friends means long-term friends and lifelong friends!

In this case, I feel that it is difficult to remain friends for a long time just by doing well in that aspect. My personal experience is that we should grasp the following aspects:

1. Be honest and trustworthy. Don't be duplicitous and don't believe what you say.

2. Don’t hesitate to help when you are in trouble. If the other party is in trouble, you should be brave and help!

3. Don’t confuse money. Small gifts communicate with each other whether they express feelings or not, but money must be clearly distinguishable between you and me.

4. Different investments. It is inevitable that conflicts of interest will arise between investors and investors.

5. Keep your distance. Everyone focuses on their career and family, and they don't deliberately stick together every two days.

6. Send information based on feelings. There is no need to say "Good morning!" and "Good night" is cumbersome.

The above brief opinions are my personal experience, for your reference, and I hope your friends can speak freely...