First of all, do you want to worship? Goodbye! The result of not worshipping is that there will be irreconcilable contradictions with them now. Especially when several of them worship and only one of them doesn't, this isolation and contradiction is even more serious. Obviously, this result is not ideal.

Secondly, what if there are constraints after worship? Obviously, there will be more demands on each other after the worship. You need to do the following:

1, try not to ask them as brothers. For example, "We are brothers, you can help me with this!" #%% "Don't say such things and don't do such things. If you say you will, they will do the same. If you don't say you won't do it, you won't lose money if you politely refuse in the future.

2, ensure that the heat of getting along with each other is the same as now. Don't be too affectionate about the past just because of worship. But don't deliberately alienate yourself for fear of being bound.

3. Like brothers in form, but friends in essence. Many times, you can say something with affection and trust, and you can make your own decisions on key issues. It is difficult for people to avoid the illusion, and your formal intimacy will give them the illusion that it is beneficial to you. You won't be too embarrassed to make a decision that doesn't meet their wishes at a critical moment.

If you have a girlfriend, make full use of it. You'd better take your girlfriend to meet them several times and have some parties. Then let your girlfriend cooperate, indicating that you are afraid of your wife. If there is anything else after this, you can say: My girlfriend won't let me. . .

That's basically it. Just do it and ensure a good relationship with them, but personal space and decision-making will not be greatly affected.