Good psychological quality is a necessary condition for people to carry out extensive social activities, and it is also a prerequisite for language skills and communicative talents to be fully developed. On the contrary, poor mental state will form certain barriers and barriers, which to a certain extent hinder people from making friends and adapting to society. Therefore, we should pay attention to self-cultivation in our work and life and strive to overcome the following psychological barriers in interpersonal communication.

1. Inferiority mentality. Some people easily develop a sense of inferiority and even look down on themselves. They only know their shortcomings but not their strengths. They are content to be inferior to others. They lack proper self-confidence and are unable to give full play to their own advantages and specialties. People with an inferiority complex lack the courage to do things in social interactions. They tend to go along with others and have no opinions of their own. If this mentality does not change, over time, it will gradually wear away a person's courage, courage and unique personality.

2. Cowardice. It is mainly seen in people who are not deeply involved in the world, have shallow experience, are introverted, and are not good at speaking. Cowardice will hinder the realization of one's own plans and assumptions. Cowardice is the rope that binds thoughts and actions, and it should be cut off and abandoned.

3. Suspicion. People with suspicion tend to look at each other and external things with distrust. Whenever they see what others are talking about, they think they are speaking ill of themselves. People who are addicted to suspicion tend to make excuses, make irrelevant remarks, make irresponsible remarks, and stir up trouble. The result can only be trouble for themselves and harm others and themselves.

4. Reverse psychology. Rebellious psychology can easily blur the boundaries between right and wrong, causing people to feel disgusted and disgusted.

5. Exclusion mentality. Human beings’ existing knowledge, experience, and ways of thinking need to be constantly updated, otherwise they will lose their vitality and even have negative effects. Exclusionary psychology just ignores this point. It manifests itself in being conservative and refusing to expand their thinking, prompting people to only circle in a small self-enclosed space.

6. The psychology of acting. Some people regard making friends as a show for fun. They often change their minds when they see different things, and they like to brag. This way of communicating between people is just superficial, so they often don't get real friendship and friends.

7. Utilitarian psychology. Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "use each other", so they only make friends with people who are useful to them and can bring benefits to them, and they often "burn bridges across rivers". This kind of utilitarian psychology in interpersonal communication will not only prevent you from making real friends, but will also damage your personality.

8. Indifference. Some people are indifferent to people and things that have nothing to do with them, and even mistakenly believe that sharp words, aloof attitude, and arrogance are their "personality", which makes others afraid to approach them and thus loses more friends.