Humor comes from humor in English. Humor and funny are different in English. A person without experience and connotation can be funny easily, but it is hard to make people feel that this person has a sense of humor.
The cultivation of a sense of humor requires you to understand and summarize the events you have experienced in your life. Hit the nail on the head humor can only be produced after a lot of experience. When Chaplin 12 years old, his father died of alcoholism, his mother lived in a mental hospital, and he entered an orphanage himself. Stephen Chow spent seven years from a quasi-flower city pig's foot as a walk-on; Zhao Benshan was an orphan since he was a child. This just proves that there must be twists and turns in your life, so that you can understand life more deeply.
People with a sense of humor also have the following characteristics:
1. Humorous people have particularly strong language skills. Mainly reflected in topic control and quick thinking.
2. Humorous people are very imaginative, not the imagination of Avatar, but detailed but interesting cameos in a certain context. Makes you feel very interesting.
3. Humorous people generally live a relaxed life, and don't pretend to be forced, but they may not think about the so-called "big" things, but humorous people generally always read books (not limited to books) and play games.
4. I think humorous people don't necessarily experience ups and downs, but they are good at teasing others, understanding and knowing everyone's jokes.
But not everyone can learn a sense of humor, just like the attitude towards life, which is determined by DNA personality or interest and understanding of language. Serious people often can't hear the voiceover.
However, self-cultivation is much more important than humor. Humor is the most eye-catching, but friends with good kung fu cultivation are like the sunshine in winter, which naturally makes people feel close. People who are particularly humorous, whether they laugh at themselves or spit on others, are often in danger of being mean.