According to my experience, educating children is a long-term job, and we can't have any idea of quick success and instant benefit, so the so-called quick-acting education methods outside are misleading. I have some experience in educating children:

Understand children

Be sure to know your child, so always chat with him on an equal footing and learn about his hobbies, ideas, etc.

Determine educational goals

To understand children, it is necessary to determine the educational goals. Whether it is high-pressure policy or happy education, we must adhere to our own educational philosophy and not be influenced by others, so as to achieve the goals.

Pay attention to children's changes

Pay attention to children's changes. Once you have any bad questions, don't get angry or beat and scold at once. Discuss with family or friends how to solve it, and be sure to solve it as soon as possible.

Understand children

To understand children, in fact, the main reason for children's problems and mistakes is their parents, so if there is a problem, we must first reflect on whether there is a problem with our education.

Friends who care about children.

Pay attention to children's friends, because as social people, his friends have great influence, so if children's friends have very bad habits, personalities, thoughts, etc. They should take timely action to prevent their children from being infected with these problems.

Control emotion

My child is also a teenager now. If I don't like something, I will try to stay away from her for a while. When my anger subsides, I'll come back to discuss it with her. Very effective, because later I found that nothing can't be solved, and nothing can't be tolerated. So I often advise my friends now: If you want to get angry with your child, stay away from him for ten meters first. This is a safe method, because the influence of nameless fire on children's minds is sometimes irreversible.