I have the same problem as you. A long time ago, I have been thinking about how to build a good relationship with someone of the same sex. Why don’t I get along so harmoniously with others, and why is it so difficult for me to gain lasting trust? Later, I figured it out: I always ask too much of others. If my potential friend is not good enough, I will subconsciously reject him; I am good enough to others, but I don't get the same return. In fact, we just need to look at it a little bit, because you can't establish a life-or-death relationship with anyone. You just need to let nature take its course and always treat others with a smile. If you think someone is worth paying for, then treat him well without asking for anything in return. Remember, don’t ask for anything in return. Until now, I have discovered that although I don’t have many friends, I still have a few brothers who I can trust, and I have fewer worries than before. It seems that the people I hate almost no longer exist.