If you want to get back together after breaking up, you'd better deal with it coldly first.
If you want to get back together after breaking up, you'd better be cool first, don't go back to find someone else right away, at least give him a week or two to buffer. Because even the person who dumped you needs time to "experience" whether you will cherish yourself more or become lonely, unhappy and hate yourself without you.
For example, after breaking up, he won't answer your phone, return your text messages, or don't want to see you, or even hear any news about you. Then you must treat it cold first. Keep the opportunity to intersect with him (her), otherwise even the opportunity to intersect will be lost, and it is really impossible to save success.
The cold treatment period after breaking up should not be too long.
Generally speaking, in order not to break the hope of getting back together after breaking up, it is best to give them a cold treatment period first. However, this cold treatment period must not be too long, not more than half a month, and not more than one month. If you hang out with each other for a month or two after breaking up, you probably won't have a chance to find her again.
How do you know she hasn't found her next home for so long? Have I forgotten all about you long ago? Especially women, they have a wide circle of friends around them. It is estimated that many spare tires are waiting, fearing that they will not find their next home after breaking up.
How long does the cooling-off period usually take?
Everyone has a history of lovelorn love, one of which is the cooling-off period. The cooling-off period usually occurs after excessive quarrels, which is still in sharp contrast with the Cold War period. But many people pester each other because they are eager to apologize to each other, which will only make them bored and miss the opportunity to save their feelings.
After being lovelorn, we all feel pain. Many people think that the source of this pain is the other party, and the separation from the other party has caused pain, so they should seek comfort, call and send messages, hoping to get the other party's response. In fact, you feel that the root of pain is not separation itself, but the fact that you don't accept separation. You still put your feelings in the other person's control, and he responded. You can be happy all day, and if he ignores you, you will be doomed.
Don't dwell on ta and fade out of the world of ta. After the end, your first reaction is to save it, but you may be too impatient and choose the way to annoy each other and continue to entangle. Since the other party chooses to leave, it is a denial to you. If you continue to pester, it will only make the other party bored. Saving love is actually a long and difficult process. It is appropriate to separate at the beginning of breaking up and give each other a cooling-off period.
In fact, it is good to be calm with each other. You are too strong in love. Well said, it shows that love is hot. I don't know, it's male chauvinism. You only care about your feelings, which really puts too much pressure on the other side. If you love someone, you must make him feel comfortable, safe and happy. So, try to love each other the way you like, not the way you feel good.
In fact, after the passion period fades, one party can find that this may not be the only lifestyle they want. It is good for both of us to be calm and calm. It's like a person who suddenly feels like driving home and getting up and leaving when he is slightly drunk. Although he didn't enjoy drinking enough for one night, it is not necessarily a bad thing for the long-term healthy friendship between the two sides. Couples who get married and have children too late will face more severe running-in unless they have super problem-solving ability.
So when one party says that this is enough, I want to calm down. The first step is of course to promise the other party to calm down. You really want to save a love, give yourself time to settle down, and give each other time to calm down. This cooling-off period is really precious. We can use it to vent our emotions, feel the lack, heal the pain and improve ourselves ... It's really hard to live without each other. Many students confided to me in the middle of the night. They can't sleep at night, can't eat during the day, and feel desperate. The other party's attitude is cold and there is no possibility of recovery.
You should realize that saving love is a long-term process, and you should find out your own problems and improve them step by step. Saving love is a long process. We need to let go of impatience, find out our own problems and improve. Love is between two people. When it comes to breaking up, both of you may be at fault, but since you are the one who wants to save, you need to figure out your own problems before you can say that you can save.