His heart should be that he likes to be alone and does not like to make friends. Most people who have no friends are due to the following reasons:
1. Social phobia
Social phobia is a common anxiety disorder. There are 5 reasons for this symptom. , respectively: physical, psychological, family, social and personality.
People with social phobia have certain difficulties in interpersonal communication. They behave nervously, speak incoherently, and are afraid of blushing in crowded situations. They sometimes avoid social interactions and refuse to make friends with others. And this kind is a very serious social fear, much like an ostrich burying its head in the sand to avoid danger. The consequence is often that there is no friend around. Of course, mild social anxiety does not matter.
2. Character of being alone
Being alone is a kind of ability and maturity. There is a saying, no one can share your joys, sorrows and joys, you will be alone in the end. Some people like to be alone in life. No matter what they do, they like to be alone and do not disturb others. It is also best not for others to disturb them. They can feel fulfilled and satisfied in solitude. People who have reached this state, They have often experienced many things, seen through many things, and have a high level of cognition.
Some people may have been with their most trusted friends, but later they were betrayed by their friends, so they stopped making friends easily and began to be keen on being alone and cutting off contact with the outside world. In this case, this kind of solitude is not recommended. Yes, you must know that people are social animals, and it is impossible for everyone to leave without worries. Therefore, being alone requires both internal and external cultivation, not just one aspect.
3. Poor character
Character often needs to be verified by details and time. People with high emotional intelligence generally know how to hide their character problems. On the contrary, people with low emotional intelligence mostly expose their character. There is a kind of person who borrows a lot of money from friends and fails to repay it, and is labeled as a person of poor character.
Frankly speaking, if such people borrow money and refuse to repay it, they are actively cutting off their friendships. In common parlance, they are "old bastards". No one around them is a true friend, and some are even old friends. Lai, even our kinship (blood relationship) has been severed, so people with bad character have no friends, and we don’t like to be friends with people with questionable character.