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I feel a heavy burden after making friends. What if you don't want to make friends?
I think it is a burden to make friends, but the problem lies not in the person you want to make friends with, but in yourself. Because getting along with others is much more troublesome for you than getting along with yourself. You may not be able to cope with it or don't want to waste time and energy on it. In short, maybe you are more suitable to get along with yourself, like a person who is not disturbed and constrained by other factors, like a lone ranger, and like being alone!

Actually, I used to be like this. I feel comfortable alone. I don't have to look at anyone's face and mood, nor do I have to consider his time and convenience! A person, I can do whatever I want. Don't go out today if you don't want to. I don't have to ask anyone out if I want to go for a walk today. Oh, how nice!

But it turned out that a few friends were actually not bad. When we chat together, sometimes we feel less bored, and sometimes we just die! I casually talk about my difficulties and doubts. I didn't expect anyone to give me some help or help me, but I found that when I poured out my feelings, even if the other person couldn't help me, I would feel very relaxed!

The years we have passed together may not be as sweet as love, or as far away as family, but there is really a feeling of moistening things. Our life is no longer boring, and we become real friends with others. We are not worried or indifferent every day. A friendship that is not often remembered will not be forgotten because of anything.

In short, it's good to have friends! It's all our own choices. Maybe you really don't want to make friends. You just haven't opened your heart yet, or the people you know now really don't suit your personality. Try to open your heart, find someone who is in tune and experience that feeling. I believe you won't regret it!