Friends are the people everyone wants to have and the people everyone wants to be. In order to make everyone become friends and consolidate the relationship between friends, we need something called friendship to water it.
friends are very important in China. Traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to it, and puts forward "sincerity", "faith", "benevolence" and "loyalty", which has always influenced us, penetrated into our lives and influenced our behavior. Become the rule of our friends. A series of stories, such as "Looking for a bosom friend in high mountains and flowing water" and "Flying roofs are far away from each other, and holding cups in their hands", are profound expressions of friendship.
"Depend on your parents at home and friends when you go out", which shows the importance of friends, and the role of friends lies in relying on each other. Rather than the behavior of blossoming evil flowers in the name of friends and friendship for personal gain. The difference between the former and the latter lies in: the former relies on each other and helps each other, especially when friends are in trouble, they rely on each other, encourage each other and help each other out of the predicament; The latter "watered" the friendship after the horse when the friend was in the spring breeze; When a friend is in trouble, he is wise to protect himself and abandon him. What's more, he adds insult to injury by adding insult to injury.
"A friend in need sees the truth, but a fire sees the real gold", which is what we ask of our friends, and it is also a standard to judge the authenticity of friendship. It also shows that friendship needs refining and sublimation. The friendship of calling each other brothers on the wine table and crowding round when things are going well is not true friendship; It is true friendship that gives you advice when you are proud and words of concern when you are down and out. Because it is not only not flattered by the temptation of fame and fortune, but also verified and sublimated in difficulties.
"A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" indicates that making friends should have nothing to ask for. Only in this way can we be alone and not lonely, and make life warmer and more comfortable.
Actually, friends who don't ask for anything are rare. You might as well close your eyes and delete those who ask for something one by one. How many are there in the end? Because true friendship is "nothing to ask for", she should not ask for anything, rely on nothing, refuse all contracts, and always be pure and fragile. Therefore, it is always so easy to be muddy and broken. Various books also introduce various ways to prevent friendship from breaking, but those methods are technical. Once technical means enter the emotional field, there is always no good result. Friendship needs to be watered with heart and cultivated with life, in order to blossom a brilliant flower of friendship.
in a word, we should not only cultivate right feelings. Because we can have no achievements, and we must never have no friends; We need friendship, but also need to be alert to evil, prevent hypocrisy and oppose betrayal. Regarding friendship, let's end with Mr. Yu Qiuyu's words!
is it easy to come to the world once?
is it easy to meet once?
is it easy to call a friend?
It's the same sentence-
Learn to cherish and be careful.
Some people regard money, fame and fortune as their own wealth, and pursue it hard all their lives, just seeking to enjoy the splendor; Some people regard intelligence as their wealth, and strive hard all their lives to surpass others ... As for me, as a middle school student, I also have great wealth that belongs to me.
home. As the saying goes, home is a sheltered harbor and a warm place to live. "Dad shines on mom like the sun, mom holds red flowers like green leaves, you are sprouting like seeds, and the three of us are an auspicious family …" I like the song "Auspicious Three Treasures" very much, because it sings the true portrayal of our family: three people, warmth and harmony. At home, my father, mother and I live happily together, sharing joy and sorrow. How many times, I have carefully realized the depth of my father and the love of my mother. Home gives me a quiet paradise and a free sky. Every moment of life at home seems to be the fruit of joy; Every fragment of life at home seems to be eternal happiness. In this warm home, I always feel happy and rich.
friends. As the poem goes, "raindrops will turn into coffee, and seeds will bloom roses. Traveling is a kind of date, and parting is to experience the taste of loneliness. It's not that no one is with you, but that coffee is not drunk. I am tired when I walk all the way, and the rain will break when I touch it. Only friendship is the most precious. " I fell in love with the innocent and confident charm of my friends, I was proud of our sincere and natural communication, and I was moved by the empathy between us. Friends will set up a rainbow leading to happiness for me when I am lonely; A bosom friend will hold up a big umbrella for me when I am in pain. They made me realize the true meaning of friendship. Walking out of the house and being with them, I feel that the sky is still so blue and the wind is still so light.
hobbies. Whenever I am free, I will casually find a piece of white paper and let the lotus flowers in full bloom appear on the drawing paper. Crystal lotus, pink petals, green branches and leaves are mixed together, which is a beautiful scene. "Clear water produces hibiscus, and it is natural to carve it." Show incisively and vividly. In this way, happiness came to me and a painting won an award. I am proud, I am proud.
count my personal assets: home, the most proud wealth; Friends are the most precious wealth; Hobbies, a huge fortune ... Ah, I have so much wealth, I am really rich. I will work harder to create more wealth and meet a better tomorrow.