Personally, I feel that this matter must be asked first. Ask your boyfriend what this software is for, and then say it according to your boyfriend's answer. If your boyfriend uses these software to find other girls, it must be secretive and speechless. At this time, I feel that you two may choose to leave. I think if your boyfriends all use dating software, it will prove that his heart is not yours. Your boyfriend may not love you very much, and he doesn't know what is the intention of being together, so I think if this is the case, he should choose to break up. This result is also a better protection for himself, so I think he should ask first. Second, if he says it is to do some work, he will definitely tell you what the software is used for soon. Such a boyfriend will take care of your feelings. If he chooses to explain, it means he is afraid of your misunderstanding and doesn't want to make you angry. At this time, listen to his explanation first to see if it is reasonable. If it is reasonable, it must be resignation. I think although there can be a little privacy in the emotional world, I think it is really important not to cheat each other. There were two times the first time.
So it's important to pay attention to these problems, so it's important for you two to communicate well.
The problem of dating software has appeared in many couples, so I think it still needs attention.