Everyone has their own circle of friends. In our daily life, besides eating, sleeping, working and shopping, we also spend some time and energy to manage our circle of friends.
There is a saying that there are many ways to make friends, but this is not the case, because the circle of friends itself has positive energy and negative energy. The "positive energy circle of friends" is a circle of friends who are helpful to themselves, and the people in the circle are their own nobles; The "negative energy circle of friends" is to hinder your circle of friends. People in the circle are not necessarily villains, but they are certainly not your nobles.
I once made a very bad friend, and that guy's personality was outrageous to the extreme. He either borrows money from me every once in a while, or finds a chance to come to my house to eat and drink. During the time when I was dealing with him, I always helped him solve all kinds of troubles, but he never played an active role in my life. Later, when I saw him, I got a headache. Even my father couldn't stand it. He complained that I said, "Look what friends you made!" " "
For all people, the purpose of establishing a circle of friends is to find noble people and people who can rely on and change their destiny. But things won't go as we wish from the beginning. Many times, the people we meet don't mean much to us, just like my bad friend. This is not the worst. To make matters worse, instead of helping us, some people dug ditches and set traps, which made us suffer heavy losses in the process of advancing.
In fact, such a thing is not uncommon, and it can happen to anyone. Maybe, I don't know when someone will come out. He claims to be your friend's buddy, or your distant relative's life-and-death friend. He is full of sweet words, saying that he can sweep away the troubles that have been bothering you for a long time, and even let you go to heaven and bid farewell to mediocrity.
Is there a more perfect friend? You simply feel that the spring of life has come and many dreams have finally come true. But in the end, you find that you misjudged someone from the beginning, but it's too late to regret it.
If when we build a circle of friends, we only see the useful side of the other party, but not the harmful side, thus ignoring the true identity and true intention of the other party, then it is easy to put ourselves at a disadvantage.
It's good to make more friends, but if you make friends indiscriminately, something will happen sooner or later. Therefore, when making friends, we should not only cast a wide net, but also learn to distinguish. Just as people are good or bad, so are friends. A good circle of friends can help you succeed, but a bad circle of friends can easily become an obstacle to your progress. Exploring "positive energy circle of friends" and staying away from "negative energy circle of friends" is the premise of making friends.