indeed, everything upstairs is very reasonable! First of all, you should have your own principles, the principles of being a man and making friends. If you are not a friend you think is worth making, why make him happy? If your friends often take your kindness as a joke, such friends don't pay attention to you at all. Will it be impossible to live without them?

Very often, you can't be too attached to others, so others will think that you are a person with no opinion and an apple polisher! Of course, you certainly don't have much to make them feel respectable, so they will treat you like this!

So, as the upstairs said: Be yourself, be an excellent self, be a person who can let friends discover the benefits of your straightforward personality, and gain their respect for you in this way!