However, some people find it difficult to establish close trust with others and feel insecure. Such is also the case with me. From primary school classmates to graduate students, I changed crop after crop. Not many people keep in touch, even my best friend, and there won't be a long time of intersection. However, when reconnecting, I still feel that there is no gap. Perhaps this is the trust confirmed after screening.
At this point, I don't quite agree with the view of Piroshi children's shoes upstairs. It is not necessarily that they are spoiled or don't understand love, and their hearts are full of goodwill. This is not only proved by showing them anytime and anywhere.
For those who are not good at communicating in the crowd, be yourself silently and lend a helping hand in time when others need help. The sense of accomplishment and self-identity gained is far better than forcing yourself to be in the crowd but have nothing to say and do nothing.
There is no difference between good and bad personality, enthusiasm or indifference, as long as you agree with yourself and choose the right lifestyle.
If you don't like the pressure brought by many people, you should take part in some activities that directly face your heart, such as traveling, photography and listening to music ... Getting inner peace is the first priority, and introverted and indifferent people are actually more suitable for making achievements in inner cultivation.
Besides, I don't have many friends, but I'm okay. Be kind to others and don't dwell too much on the pros and cons. It is enough to have a few friends who can help each other in time.
If you are a cold person, with a strong spiritual world and a stable material life, you don't care how to maintain your friendship at all. Their friends may be changing all the time, but they are always few and good.