Is it really good to be easy-going? This is a soul torture sent by a close friend.

With such a question, it is not difficult to find that Zhiyou’s understanding of easy-going is just like the literal meaning of easy-going.

The so-called easy-going, literally means casual and casual. It is really not good to be easy-going, to be casual, to be called upon, to be slaughtered, to be casual, to be procrastinating, and to be criticized by others. .

In fact, true easy-going is just the opposite. People who truly have the ability to be easy-going have a broad mind, they are not easy to make enemies, and they truly have hard skills.

01 Easy-going people with broad minds

There is a type of people who don’t always like to care about anything. They are always positive about anything as long as they don’t touch the bottom line. The answer is yes, no problem.

This type of people are actually broad-minded people. They have the ability to be easy-going, they don't care about others, and they can hold a boat in their hearts.

People like this actually know how to tolerate themselves and the world.

Things in the world are unpredictable, and there are too many things in the world that can make people entangled. If you really care, you may find it difficult to be happy and face life positively.

Why not be a broad-minded person, forget your worries, and prevent those bad things from staying in your head for too long.

Ji Xianlin once said: "Everything sprouts from heaven and earth, which gives amazing power to life. Being happy with the situation and being at ease is the best attitude towards life."

Easy-going, literal meaning It is random, but it is not random. It is not only an attitude towards life, but also a kind of wisdom and a state of life.

Be an easy-going person and live a "happy-go-lucky" life.

02 Easy-going people are not easy to make enemies

People with easy-going abilities have several characteristics. They are kind-hearted and calm in dealing with things. For them, there are only friends and no enemies in the world.

For this kind of people, they are friendly with everyone and have fun with everyone. They have never been anxious with others. Their social circle is very wide, including those who are deeply affectionate and those who have casual acquaintances.

No matter how deep or shallow the relationship is, they all accept everyone who comes, and they all handle it very well. Some people call this kind of behavior "smooth", but I prefer to call it easy-going.

Because this is not just about "making friends", it also considers people's ability to deal with things.

Easy-going, it represents a state of mind. If the heart is calm, there will be scenery everywhere.

Easy-going, it represents an attitude. The premise of accepting fate is to do your best first.

Being easy-going is not about trying to have both sides, it is not about muddle along, it is not about following the rules, it is about letting nature take its course and going with the flow.

An easy-going person is a kind person, and an easy-going person is a smart person. Who would be the enemy of a kind and smart person?

Dickens said: "There are many emotions in the world that are far stronger than hatred."

Instead of making enemies, it is better to make friends; instead of hating the world, it is better to love the world. The world is a good place. The world is worth it.

03 Easy-going is a person’s hidden hard power

Shen Congwen is a famous writer in history. His success is not unrelated to his easy-going personality.

He is kind to people. As long as he does not touch the bottom line, he will basically not argue with others. In the process of getting along with friends, he always treats them with a sincere heart.

Therefore, when he was in trouble, his friends were happy to help him.

When his hands and feet were cold from the cold while writing, Yu Dafu constantly encouraged him, gave him pocket money, brought him meals, and stayed with him.

If it weren't for Shen Congwen's previous kindness and easy-goingness, he would never be able to get a friend like Yu Dafu back.

Without such friends, would Shen Congwen have given up writing? Is it that there is no current achievement? Although it is unknown, it is an established fact that he gets help from his friends because of his easy-going personality.

Not only that, the love story between Shen Congwen and his wife Zhang Zhaohe is also inseparable from Shen Congwen's easy-going personality.

Shen Congwen was deeply attracted to Zhang Zhaohe when he first met Zhang Zhaohe, but at that time Shen Congwen did not catch Zhang Zhaohe's eyes. Zhang Zhaohe's second sister Zhang Yunzhi even jokingly called Shen Congwen "Toad No. 13."

However, easy-going people have a very good attitude. Not only did Shen Congwen not get angry, he also made peace with Zhang Zhao as always. In the end, his easy-going attitude and patience allowed him to win the beauty.

Being easy-going is not that difficult, but it is not that simple either. Easy-going is a stable ability, and easy-going is a good disposition that lasts for a long time.

Being easy-going is not that difficult, but it is not that simple either. Easy-going is a stable ability, and easy-going is a good disposition that lasts for a long time.

There is a saying: "The most brilliant is often the loneliest, the most easy-going is often the farthest."

Easy-going, don't look at it as simple, it is very difficult to do it well, It is also very far away, cannot be seen or touched.

Agreedy when done well, they are respected. Being easygoing when not done well will often be regarded as casual.

If you want to do it, do it like this: "Don't think that I am casual in everything, just treat me as a casual person. I am just easy-going, that's all."

Be easy-going and principled, live a casual and peaceful life with an easy-going and indifferent attitude.

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Author | Zheng Zaixiu

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