The standard for boys to choose a spouse, a boy can only meet the right person if he has a correct concept of choosing a spouse, so what does the correct concept of choosing a spouse depend on? Besides appearance and personality, we should also look at personality and values. What are the criteria for boys to choose a spouse?

Male mate selection criteria 1 First of all, the primary criterion is liking.

There is a famous study abroad, which tries to write down the criteria for choosing a spouse before dating, but the object chosen by the subjects after dating is basically different from that written before dating. The follow-up study found that when the subjects were in love, the criteria for choosing a spouse were completely written according to the other half; But strangely, when the subjects broke up, they were asked to rewrite the criteria for choosing a spouse, which was basically the same as that written before the first blind date.

From foreign research, we can find that the most important thing in choosing a spouse is liking. Maybe before the blind date, I want to find a particularly beautiful, special, sunny and so on. But when I really meet the person I like, everything is not so important. In the actual consultation, it is found that the face value of female visitors is generally high, so if the relationship really comes to an end, the face value cannot be the weight to maintain love for a long time. Through the analysis of emotional research, it is found that when choosing a mate, boys often care more about connotation than appearance if they meet the person they like.

Second, it is often mentioned that * * * is the same language.

With the development of economy and the progress of thought, men have gradually changed from paying attention to face value and conditions to pursuing spiritual partners. When it comes to mate selection criteria, the most frequently mentioned words are * * * the same language, while * * * the same language means similar views, similar ideological level, and even similar hobbies and pursuits. Only when two people speak the same language can their feelings be more stable and last longer.

There may be many people who will scoff and think that men are true colors. In fact, this is a prejudice. First of all, people like beautiful things, so men and women are true colors, but it doesn't mean that the most important thing must be face value. Secondly, in choosing a spouse, men nowadays not only consider the problem of love, but also consider the problem of married life, so it is more important to communicate with each other. Finally, when choosing a mate, men pay more attention to things like spirit, which makes men care more about language communication.

Third, the most important thing is appearance.

On the issue of male mate selection, different people's mate selection criteria may be different, or even very different, but there is basically no shortage of looks. Whether it is figure or face value, or height and weight, it belongs to the category of appearance. From the perspective of biological evolution, a better appearance means a better gene, which also means a better appearance for the next generation.

However, different from the traditional concept, at present, men's requirements for appearance are not only face value, but even the proportion of face value is not high. Perhaps it is the progress of retouching and makeup technology, and the number of beautiful women is increasing. Therefore, when choosing a mate, men will fully consider factors such as face value, figure and height. And you will also consider the dress and collocation of clothes, accessories and even hairstyles.

Fourth, the connotation lies in personality and temperament.

Personality temperament is included in male mate selection criteria. I believe many people will not be surprised and will not object. Indeed, people nowadays pay more and more attention to personality temperament. If there are problems with personality and temperament, it is really a tragedy to get along with each other. I once met a case where a friend's husband was removed. He didn't say a word for a long time because of a small matter. After a few years of marriage, friends can't stand it. Finally, he got depressed and ended his marriage.

Like and face value determine the beginning of love, * * * the same language determines the warming of love, and personality temperament determines the long-term love. Some girls will always do all kinds of things when they are in love, and they may get angry several times a day, which will make men collapse; Some girls always have all kinds of troubles when they are in love. They may break up several times a week and kill their feelings. Other girls are always too clingy when they are in love. Whether it's thousands of words of news or a serial phone call, boys will be afraid. Therefore, boys attach great importance to personality and temperament in mate selection criteria, and may continue to be valued by boys in the future.

Boy's mate selection standard 2: a complete collection of boy's mate selection standards

1, considerate

Understanding sounds common, but few girls can really understand it. It's important for a man to find someone to understand. No matter how strong a person is, there are times when he is weak. No matter how rational a person is, he sometimes loses his temper. Therefore, at this time, as his other half, you should try to understand him and communicate with him more, so that life will get better and better. In love, a smart woman knows how to understand her man and never makes trouble without reason, then you ask for it. Because a man really loves you, he will spoil you and won't let you have unreasonable opportunities. In a family, men are under the greatest pressure, so women should understand him more.

2, filial piety to parents

Filial piety is the most important point in men's mate selection criteria. In real life, men are generally outside and hardly at home during the day. It's hard to be filial to your parents if you want to do it yourself. Women can take care of their parents in their daily lives. Therefore, in choosing a spouse, men want their women to be filial to their parents, which is also a filial way. As we all know, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been complicated since ancient times. If a man marries a wife who can be filial to his parents, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be rigid and life will naturally be harmonious. Therefore, this is very important.

3. Emotional specificity

Single-mindedness is the basic standard for a woman to be a wife. Once a woman gets married, she should give priority to her man. She also knows her identity and won't make any desertion in marriage, because she has identified her own man in her heart. A man, surrounded by such a single-minded woman, will have a good development in both life and career. This is the power of a good marriage. A woman who is single-minded about women will not have conflicts with men because of poor family conditions, but will accompany him through thick and thin. Treat a single-minded woman, she will not squander because of superior family conditions, because she knows that these are hard-won.

Boys' mate selection criteria 3 III. Complete works of boy's mate selection criteria

1, a relatively simple beautiful girl.

Most boys believe in their eyes. If a beautiful girl can attract their eyes, she will be deeply attracted. If a beautiful girl can leave a pleasing, relaxed and happy first impression on boys, it will inspire boys' hazy and persistent love, and perhaps it will also inspire boys' extraordinary courage and become a princess forever in boys' minds.

2. A smart girl who speaks wisely.

If a girl's wise performance can make boys change their view that most girls are cold "ice beauties" and attract others' recognition with her wise talk, then a girl with wise talk and wise thoughts, with her clever talk and supercilious wisdom, will definitely make boys feel good and completely impressed.

3. A sunny girl with a cheerful personality.

Boys like girls' easy-going and cheerful personality, can have the same language and similar hobbies, can have good standards of making friends and social restraint, and can bring and infect friends and colleagues around them with the sunny side of their own personality. Such a girl will become the focus of attention, and the boys around her will willingly become bees around you.

4. Rich knowledge girl.

Different from the old days when judging women by the standard of "no talent is virtue", modern society mostly requires girls to have relatively rich connotations and relatively open modern knowledge. Similarly, boys are rarely willing to marry a girl with a big chest and no brain to go home. After all, most boys still like girls who are rich in connotation and can face the society calmly.

5. An intellectual girl with a little knowledge of the world.

Girls with tolerance and a little worldly wisdom are generally popular girls. Boys like girls who care about themselves, girls who can talk and laugh with themselves at rest, girls who can give themselves face in public, girls who can maintain their boyfriend's image among friends, and girls who can make a little noise in their own world.

6. A healthy girl who loves life.

A healthy girl who loves life is the goal pursued by all boys, and it is also the type that all prospective mother-in-law especially likes. Because they love life, attach importance to family, have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, treat people with generosity, and their health is beneficial to future generations. Therefore, boys especially like girls with healthy body and healthy personality.

7. A girl who is filial to her elders.

Children nowadays are mostly self-centered. If they can always think of others, or often put themselves in others' shoes, then they are definitely the type that boys like, especially girls who have the traditional virtues of China women and can honor their elders, and they are the objects that boys dream of.

8. Girls with temperament and ability.

Being able to do a certain degree in her career and be competent in her own work, as long as she is not a "workaholic" and can properly handle the relationship between work and life and the relationship between family and work unit, it shows that she has unique coordination ability. Such girls are also the objects that some boys are keen to pursue.

9. Ordinary girls who love their families.

Girls who play crazy are discouraged by most boys, especially girls who don't even go home, or girls who don't have strong family values, and most boys avoid them. A girl who doesn't even care about her family, you can't expect her to love this family, love her family, or even run everything well in this family.

10, a kind-hearted girl who keeps house diligently.

Girls don't have to be beautiful, but they must be kind-hearted. It is a boy's blessing to be born in a famous family or a rich family, but if he is an evil girl, it will also bring a lifelong pain to the boy. Therefore, a kind-hearted girl who can keep a house diligently can bring happiness to her family.