Because love is idealized and marriage is realistic. Although some people say that love is the original song of marriage and marriage is the result of love, love and marriage can't usually be confused.
Love and marriage are two different roles. If the roles are changed well, two people will be very happy and happy together. Otherwise, it will be difficult to get the desired results.
In "The Condor Heroes", the love between the little dragon girl and Yang can be said to be epic, which touched thousands of people in Qian Qian before, just because they can't fall in love easily, and their love is miserable and weird. In other words, will they be happy if they put their fingers together and turn this hard-won love into marriage?
Perhaps, the answer is no. Why do you say that? Because of this sentence: love is love, marriage is marriage, two people who love to death in love may not be able to express harmoniously in their daily life in marriage. Little Dragon Girl and Yang Guo are brother and sister. That kind of love is not only hard, but also very prone to problems in marriage.
There will be no problem with brother-sister relationship. The problem depends on the differences between people, the tempering of time and the tempering after the role change. Some brother-sister relationships have no problems in the love stage, but after entering marriage, it is very likely that problems will continue to appear.
For example, Ma Yili is dating the content of the article. At the beginning, their feelings were not necessarily bad, and their love was not necessarily not sweet, but in the end they all lost to marriage and time.
Ma Yili's unsuccessful marriage and the content of the article illustrate a very big problem in the relationship between brother and sister, that is, the middle-aged difference between the two people, which eventually leads to the unsynchronized development of the two people.
The love between women and boys will eventually make women love very hard. It is easy for a boy to grow up slowly, so he must have enough time to develop, and his wife must be careful enough to tolerate him, understand him, improve him, and even face the cruel injury when he made an incorrect principle in marriage.
We should understand that not every woman can be so strong. At least Ma Yili, who looks strong enough, has a successful career and is honest, still fails to carry out "Happiness is only with you".
The same is true of Little Dragon Girl and Yang Guo. Yang Guo and she are originally a child, and she has a very delicate side. Two people are inseparable together. After a long time, it gradually caused the germination of love, and whether love is love, true feelings or teacher-student love seems to be very worthy of repeated scrutiny.
Even if that kind of love has the foundation of love and has undergone various tempering, many loves are inspired by natural environment, not the kind of love that men and women love each other.
On the surface, it seems that two people, one lively and cheerful, the other rational and gentle, bring out the best in each other, but in fact, one naive and one perfect, both have a side that is difficult to combine. They have also experienced several quarrels in real life.
The little dragon girl left Yang Guo for the first time because she felt immature and didn't understand love. Naturally, there are many misunderstandings, including one time when the little dragon girl was jealous of Guo Fu.
However, this kind of thing happens to be something that marriage must continue to get rid of. There are many more complicated and piecemeal things in marriage that must be solved and handled by two people together. If Yang can't develop rapidly and improve as soon as possible after marriage, the little dragon girl can't guarantee a certain degree of tolerance, and she will quarrel and break up because of some misunderstandings, and it is difficult to be happy after marriage.
Little Dragon Girl and Yang Guo are originally two kinds of people, so they are not suitable for being lovers. Because of the damage of the living environment, the little dragon girl has always given people the impression that she is a cold-faced beauty with no feelings and few desires, and Yang Guo happens to be a passionate person.
Two people like that are completely different people. A passion, an indifference; A talkative, a silent; One loves prosperity and the other tends to be lonely. Actually, it's not suitable for being together. Even together, it is difficult to combine.
Two people like that are actually two people with different views. In the case of falling in love, the concept is usually not up; It will gradually appear after marriage.
Imagine that the interaction between men and women for such a short time is likely to be ok. If the marriage lasts for a long time, there will inevitably be big problems, and it is very easy to break up and divorce because of disagreement.
The importance of the problem depends on the love between Little Dragon Girl and Yang Guo. In the rough and noisy experience, there are not many years together. Many of them are hardships, desolation, misunderstanding and separation.
This also represents the love of two people. In fact, there are too few elements in actual combat drills and too many fantasies. Marriage is just a very practical sauce and vinegar. The pace of marriage cannot be supported by happy love imagination.
It is in this case that two people are infatuated like phantoms, and it is inevitable that they will have illusions and blindly follow suit.
So it's hard to imagine what kind of grandma life those two people might lead after they get married, dealing with the odds and ends of daily life, dealing with chicken and dog leftovers, eating and living, raising children and raising children.
In a word, the individualization of Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl are two diametrically opposite personalities. Those two people originally belonged to two worlds. If they get married together in daily life, it will inevitably lead to great extreme differences, which will lead to unhappy marriage and even division.