It is unnatural for girls to spend money on boys during their love. Two people are just in love, not to the point of talking about marriage. It is better for both sides to spend their own money. Many lovers in love are still students. As a student, a boy has no income, and his monthly living expenses depend entirely on his parents. If his girlfriend spends all his money, the boy's life will be affected. My girlfriend and I also met in college. At that time, we both spent money on aa, and we often went Dutch when eating. My girlfriend doesn't want me to spend all my money. She thinks that I am still a student, and the monthly living expenses are not particularly high, so she is very considerate of me. When she spends money, she will also give some. Although two people usually spend money together, I often buy her some gifts, such as a lipstick or snacks. Because I think in the process of love, boys should at least pay, and they can't always think about sharing equally, but boys should pay more. However, it should be noted that spending money should be done according to one's ability. It doesn't make much sense to spend a lot of money on things you can't afford. Of course, there are also girls around me who have been spending their boyfriends' money, going out to eat or travel, and all boys pay the bill. Maybe once or twice is fine, but more times, boys will have opinions and affect their feelings. Therefore, in the process of love, girls can't just spend their boyfriends' money, but should reciprocate.

Sorry, you are not qualified to let me spend your money! "First of all, this is not a bowl of poisoned chicken soup, nor is it to preach that' women spend money and men make money'." Brilliant idea, just for some women who don't spend men's money easily to show their mentality! A few days ago, I saw an official WeChat account telling two short stories about "money rules", which caused me to think. Now, let me share these two short stories with you. Story 1: My second aunt's daughter Ya broke up with her boyfriend. The reason is-he is too stingy. Her boyfriend likes to say three words: "this is not delicious." "This doesn't look good." "This is not for you." On one occasion, Ya Ya WeChat chatted with him, suddenly talking about food, joking that "there are no snacks, please take me to buy them tomorrow!" He was silent for a while and didn't reply for a quarter of an hour. He didn't wake up until Ya Ya changed the subject. After dating for a while, Ya Ya couldn't bear to break up. The man actually said, "Give back the gift I gave you." Ya turned pale with anger: "Just one necklace, less than 3,000. Here you are. " After returning the necklace, Ya Ya got up to go, and the man stopped her: "You pay the bill today." Many people say that you can get a glimpse of a person's quality by looking at his clothes and conversation. It's not all like this. Dressing appropriately sometimes only shows that he pays attention to image, and speaking appropriately sometimes only shows that he has high emotional intelligence. What best reflects a person's quality is spending money. Consumption can reflect a person's pattern. A psychologist once told me a little about my life experience: "Never make friends with penniless people, not because they are stingy." . In fact, they are generally not bad, even good people, just too stingy to give, not unwilling to give, but unable to give. Every adult who is used to being penniless has a barren land in his heart. Most of them have a childhood full of fear and want. It's hard enough, but it's penetrating. Therefore, when looking for a partner, a woman should know a money rule: see how the other person spends money, especially on you. Within the scope of economic income, those who are willing to spend money for you may not love you, and those who are unwilling to spend money for you may not love you. Huang Lei said, "It is more important to have a rich wife than a rich daughter." This abundance is not only material, but also spiritual. A person who really loves you is willing to spend money for you, spend time for you and think for you.

Generally speaking, there is no right or wrong in this phenomenon. It's up to you as long as it suits you. In fact, the most important problem is not this, but other problems derived from it. Or other hidden problems. Such as gratitude and feedback. For example, will you be filial to your parents in the future? For example, taking responsibility in family life in the future. There is no standard answer to this question. It is good to like yourself, and it is good to be together in the end. In fact, girls in China will have this kind of psychology more or less, that is, boys who come out to spend will have to pay the bill. It's just that your girlfriend might stand out. As long as you love her and she loves you, nothing else is a problem. In addition, if your family's economic conditions are not very good and you are under great pressure, you can euphemistically express your thoughts and tell him that you love her very much, but your family's conditions are not very good and you don't want to be separated from her, so I hope she can make appropriate contributions. 3. suggestion: I won't delve into it for you. I would rather tear down the temple than ruin my marriage. I just think it's okay. I don't compare, I just like it. Why do you care? Money can be earned. How hard is it to meet the right person?

It stands to reason that it is right for the man to spend some money for the woman during the period of love between men and women. But this is not a matter of course. It also depends on the economic conditions of both sides. In the final analysis, love is to connect feelings and get to know each other. This decision is not determined by how much money is spent.

It is certainly not a matter of course for girls to spend money on boys during their love. After all, whether two people are married or not, there is no need to raise a woman. Unless you are married, you are all family members, so it is only natural to spend your boyfriend's money.