Around us, we often see such people, who seem to be "good people" who deserve our recognition. Because they behave very well in life and work, are very loyal, and are very infatuated when making friends or lovers. Therefore, in our opinion, these people are all good people who deserve recognition. However, everyone is exaggerating in their words. In fact, everyone is not willing to be close friends with these so-called "good people" because once they become friends, it is estimated that there will be hardships. So, who are the “good people” that we shouldn’t easily become friends with?
The first "good guy": a good old guy.
A good person refers to a person who is easy-going and kind, has a gentle personality, does not want to offend others, will not reject others, and lacks principles. There are many such people around us. They have a gentle personality and do not like to be in the limelight. Such people may seem worthy of our association, but in fact, they are just like grass on the wall. Especially when it comes to issues of principle, such a good old man will not have his own opinion.
Moreover, the tougher the master, the more afraid they are and lose the bottom line of their own behavior. Such people, at best, do not want to offend others; at worst, they help others do evil and become hidden accomplices. When we become friends with such people, we cannot be sincere. Even if we have difficulties later, we will not get any help, and some even have to help them deal with difficult problems. In this case, we will be in trouble.
The second "good guy": a loyal but reckless person.
Around us, we will see some people who are forthright and seem to be upright, especially at the wine table. They like to pat their chests and talk to each other. We became brothers. When we are in trouble, they often jump out to support us. However, such people often have a personality trait, which is that they are too domineering and too reckless, so they are easy to cause trouble.
Lao Tzu said: Those who are strong will not die, and those who are warlike will meet their enemies. It is about a person who is too strong and will eventually suffer an unexpected blow. Therefore, making friends with these loyal but reckless and domineering people may seem like we have help and support, but in fact, they are causing us trouble. Because once we ask them for help, they will be too reckless and get into trouble. In the end, not only will they not be able to help, they will also bring us more and bigger troubles. In this case, we will have no words to complain about.
The third "good person": a passionate person.
There is a sentence in the Ming Dynasty book "Little Window Youji" written by Chen Jiru, which is very interesting for readers: Love is the most difficult to last, so many lovers will inevitably become unloving; nature has its own permanence, so willful people will never lose their nature. . The meaning of this sentence is that it is most difficult for a person to maintain long-term love, so emotional people will eventually become shallow and heartless. Human nature has certain common sense, so people who act willfully will never lose their nature. Similarly, this kind of passion can also be used in making friends.
If a person is too passionate, then this person will easily squander each other's feelings, that is, make friends with us, especially the boyfriend and girlfriend who become lovers with us. Passionate people, It is very likely that you will be able to achieve success in both directions when it comes to emotional issues. If one day there are some conflicts between the two people's emotions, then the passionate person will quickly turn into a ruthless person and leave us decisively. What is left may be unspeakable emotional harm to us.
Of course, in our lives, there are still many people who are worthy of our association. They are kind, honest, clean and tidy, and do not worry about minor matters, etc. When we make friends with such people, we not only feel relieved, but we can also interact with them as if they were gentlemen, so that our lives are free of pressure, burden, and worry. Therefore, these people are like a cup of mellow "friend's wine". We should cherish it, socialize well, and savor it carefully.