1, willing to take moral responsibility.
As the old saying goes, a gentleman dies with virtue, while a villain gains with profit. A true friend can only be someone who approaches you purposefully and does nothing but alienate you.
True friends, just like falling in love, "love" each other, recognize each other and trust each other, instead of always mocking and teasing you in a joking way. True friends are honest, have a sense of justice, don't care about things, are willing to overcome some inconveniences and help you as much as possible. You won't say something insincere and insincere to make you back down, but you are a fake good man because you are unavailable.
2. Do not stick to the form.
If you don't stick to external things such as position, status and industry, you will never win a general in life. When it intersects with the target form, it will be scattered.
It is not limited to making true friends because of national territory, nationality, language habits and living habits, and not engaging in heroic complex. Today, we will drop our blood as allies, get the same tattoo, and where to worship. True friends can have different political views and opposite ideas, but they must be interesting. Having common interests and hobbies together is the so-called teasing.
3. It can't be perfect.
Making friends is like shopping. It's up to you. Don't expect everything in the store to be designed according to your preferences. It is not that you like reading. He said reading is a waste of time, and you like traveling. He said it was a waste of money. So friends learn from each other's strengths and tolerate each other's weaknesses.
A friend's personality, accomplishment, knowledge, talent, etc. They are all accumulated over the years, and not all aspects are recognized by him. As long as the other party has a bottom line, everything above the bottom line can be tolerated. True friends will find problems from themselves in advance and don't like to put things on each other. In the event of an accident, such a friend runs faster than anyone else.
Don't find fault with previous contacts between friends, because neither of us is RMB and we can't both be satisfied. Because the tastes are the same, because the three views are roughly the same, I know that I am happy.