The so-called "friends" are those who dare to point out shortcomings and mistakes face to face and "pour cold water" on hot-headed friends.
The value of friends is that they can be honest with each other with a highly responsible attitude, never whitewash their shortcomings and mistakes, dare to expose their shortcomings and urge them to correct them. If you can make a few friends, you will take fewer detours on your way forward.
It is human nature to make mistakes. "No one can be' perfect gold'. It is always inevitable to make mistakes, but because of the "fans of the authorities", mistakes are often not self-aware. At this time, if there is no "bystander" friend to tell you frankly and criticize you, you may lose your way and go astray, with disastrous consequences. If you have a friend by your side, you can get rid of mistakes and chaos quickly with the help of your friend. Looking back at the history of our country, there are many examples of big businessmen becoming friends. Emperor Taizong, who took the people as a mirror, used courtiers, made friends, opened up a road, distinguished gains and losses, and achieved the glory of "Zhenguan rule". Therefore, anyone who wants to achieve something attaches great importance to making friends.
To make friends, you must have a broad mind and tolerance for rumors. Friends who fall in love with other people's shortcomings and mistakes are honest and frank people. They are often the "art" of directly pointing out and criticizing without beating around the bush. Therefore, without the tolerance of "other people's advice", Emperor Taizong would regard their "mean words" as finding fault and making things difficult for others. Instead of making friends, they give them little shoes to wear and even beat them out.
To make friends, you should have the courage to face up to your shortcomings and correct your mistakes. It is impossible for a person who is "afraid of illness and medical treatment" to let his friends "scrape bones and cure poison". This kind of person whitewashes peace, likes obedience and evil, disagrees with his friends' words, goes his own way, and refuses to change even if he knows his mistakes. My friend had to leave him. Xiang Yu, the overlord of the place of Chu, refused to listen to rumors and allowed his friends to get married. It was not until the people deserted that he fled to the Wujiang River alone and sighed, "It is not a crime to die in such a day." This "world genius" will never admit his mistake. Imagine how such a person can keep friends!
The premise of making friends is that * * * has a common ideal and career. Only those who value their careers over their faces can treat each other with sincerity, thus helping each other in their careers and honing each other morally. For the same ideal and just cause, you can give generously, and you can throw things at me. Between friends, you know everything, and it will change when you smell it; Only trust, no fraud; Only encouragement, not appeasement; Friendship is the most important, without losing principle; Adversity and * * * can never get along. Such friendship is the true friendship between friends.
People-oriented, making friends, the times call for friends, entrepreneurs need friends.
Friend, do you have any friends?
Do you want to make friends?
Would you like to be friends with others?