The method is as follows:

1. Have a rough understanding of the other person's impression of you when you meet for the first time. If you have a good conversation, and if you are a boy, out of politeness, just greet the other person politely that night. If you are a girl, it is recommended not to initiate contact.

2. The other party’s response time and willingness to chat. If the other party responds in a timely manner or is very cooperative when chatting, there will usually be no big problem. Don’t step into the minefield and talk about marriage-related topics or topics that are easy to disagree with. At this time, focus on creating a chatting atmosphere, which is to build goodwill.

If the other party doesn’t reply very much, delays replying for seven or eight hours, or a day or two or even longer without any explanation, it means that he or she is not interested in you. If you have a general feeling for him, you can give up. Otherwise, you can just go with him and show off your feelings in your circle of friends to attract him.

3. It is recommended that you make an appointment to meet offline one week after the blind date, to have a meal or go out to play, otherwise it will get cold if the time is too long.

Be sure to avoid the following chat methods!

1. Inquiry-style awkward chat

A typical example is that the opening chat record is a sample of asking for awkward chat. The desire to have a good chat can be felt, but all topics do not have to revolve around the other party. The result is not only passive, but also the process is really embarrassing.

2. Taobao-style awkward chat

Taobao-style awkward chat is not a derogatory description, but a description of how you want to get closer to someone who is obviously not familiar with you, so just follow Taobao’s example The textbook style of address, starting with "kiss" and "dear", will not only make the other person feel a little embarrassed, but also be very troublesome for those who are a little more introverted.

3. Clear positioning

Especially for many boys, don’t be too chauvinistic. You feel that if someone adds you as a friend, they recognize you, and they are a couple. Don't you think it's very abrupt to ask someone out right away before we've even gotten to know each other? Moreover, it's not as good as Taobao-style awkward chatting, where you start with "baby" and "dear". Come on, these are obviously terms that can only be used in intimate relationships! Before the relationship is confirmed, don’t make the other person feel too troubled!

4. Not too often

Previous article: Does your date not reply when you chat? Because you don’t know these three points! , I focused on the frequency of contacting your blind date, and I will add some more here. A typical example is saying good night at 12 o'clock in the evening, and getting up at 7 o'clock in the morning to say good morning.

If it is a blind date that you have a good conversation with and both parties are familiar with, the other person may feel sweet in his heart; if it is a blind date that you have just met and just want to be friends with you first, how often does this happen? It will only make the other person feel stressed.