The reason why young people don’t like to socialize comes from a deep sense of being penetrated. This sense of being seen can make individuals feel nervous and uneasy, and it is precisely to avoid this kind of nervousness that they stay away from society. As a mentally mature person, greeting others and exchanging greetings is a kind of etiquette in itself. In the process of exchanging greetings, it is inevitable that you will ask questions, but young people are most afraid of being asked questions. This is because they are too sensitive and fragile in their hearts. Especially young people with excessive self-awareness will feel a sense of being scrutinized if they are asked questions, and this feeling will make individuals doubt themselves. To avoid self-doubt, young people are choosing to stay away from society.

Although young people do not have a deep understanding of themselves because they are still in the process of becoming themselves, they already care very much about themselves. They long to be unique, which is their initial understanding of themselves. In order to maintain their uniqueness, they reject anyone who tries to doubt their uniqueness. So much so that they are wary of anyone approaching them to avoid questioning themselves. In fact, people themselves are very homogeneous, and you will find out when you go to interview for a popular position.

In people's interactions, in order to enhance mutual trust, communication must be conducted through questioning. Inquiries will inevitably involve personal privacy, which is a very sensitive part of young people's identity. Things that are not considered private in the eyes of most people will also be valued by these people as privacy. They almost have a kind of psychological distortion. They over-protect themselves and pay too much attention to themselves, so that they are forced to live a solitary life. Once they are dragged into social interaction, they will be very uncomfortable