However, there are good and bad friends, and making friends also has advantages and disadvantages. If you make a "good friend", he can help you make progress; If you make "bad friends", this may be the beginning of your fall. So, how should we make friends?
First of all, correct your values. Birds of a feather flock together. What kind of values, there will be what kind of needs, and this demand will make you make a certain type of friends. To choose a good friend, we should first pay attention to correcting our values.
Secondly, we should improve our recognition ability. Some people often point out their friends' shortcomings and mistakes. Although it sometimes sounds uncomfortable, such friends may be beneficial. Some people can always get what they want, sweet talk and make people feel close, but such friends can also be harmful.
Third, stick to like-mindedness. Like-minded is the most important link to establish, consolidate and develop friendship. We should make friends on the basis of like-mindedness, help each other in life, work and career, and make progress together.
Of course, in the communication with friends, we need to pay attention to art, and trust is the bridge of friendship. Friends should trust each other. As long as you are sincere and show your sincerity, others will trust you and treat you in the same way. Only open-minded people can make friends. Your friend may have some shortcomings or mistakes. You should learn to be tolerant and tolerate other people's mistakes. There will inevitably be various contradictions, differences and misunderstandings between friends. As long as it's not a matter of principle, don't cling to it.
Friendship between friends depends on sincere treatment and common interests, not sweet words or gifts. Material exchange, disgusting flattery, mutual use, and even cheating friends are all undesirable. True friendship should stand the test of time and external environment.