I look down on the world and am tired of you coming and going, so I choose to go alone.
No matter how busy other people's world is, I never envy it.
The more complicated the circle around you, the lazier you are to participate.
To outsiders, this kind of life is bleak, and such people are withdrawn.
But in fact, a person's world is not as lonely and boring as others think.
You can better control your own pace of life, because you don't need to revolve around others, and you don't need to waste time on outsiders.
The disappearance of interpersonal relationships can avoid a lot of troubles, but such days are quiet.
Is it normal to stay alone, not to make friends and not to contact others?
The answer is, of course, yes.
People who like this kind of bow should yearn for a simple and clean world.
The older you get, the less you care who you make friends with. Your story doesn't need to be understood by others, and you don't want to know the experience of the same person.
If it is a relationship that makes you very tired, you can put it down. You just want to live a good life and take care of your family.
If you are used to walking alone, you will become addicted. I will treat loneliness as a kind of enjoyment in the future.
You will deliberately avoid some people, break off relationships, run your own small life quietly, and live comfortably.
02
No friends. Because I'm too lazy to cater to anyone
Immature people are always afraid of no one around them.
So wherever I go, I am busy looking for colleagues or building good relationships with people around me.
If you want to get close to others, you can't avoid pandering to others.
It can be said that flattery in words and flattery in action are all painstaking efforts in interpersonal relationships.
But not everyone lives like this.
I hate people who are straightforward and change themselves for others.
If you ask such a thing, he will never learn. I'd rather have no friends than be warm to others on purpose.
In addition, adults often compare or play tricks on each other in social activities. If they realize this, they won't care too much about "making friends".
No friends, no friends. It doesn't matter. A person is not lonely at all.
I don't care if others say they are difficult to get along with behind their backs. I'm not going to do everything anyway, so this evaluation won't hurt him.
03
Because I don't even contact, I really don't care who it is.
As long as a person has experienced human feelings, he will understand more and more.
Think about you before, have you ever overestimated your relationship with anyone?
After overestimating friendship, I find that my best friend can't see the best of you.
Overestimate the affection, it turns out that when you are down and out, everyone avoids you.
In the past, you always cared about those who thought you cared about you, but the reality is that there are really not many people who are really good to you in this world.
Once shabby, once noticed those people's hypocritical faces, I don't want to keep a meaningless relationship with them anymore. (hypocrite) too lazy to contact anyone. Because I no longer talk to others naively, I will let others laugh at myself behind my back.
It would be very troublesome to take the initiative again. I know some people degrade themselves, so I'd better leave them alone.
Wechat has rarely sent messages to others, and has not received messages from others for a long time. You have long accepted this state and are used to it.
04
Live to the end, a person, free and willful.
In this world, everyone has their own way of life.
People who like to be busy, regardless of their age, are keen on interpersonal relationships.
Afraid of loneliness, afraid of being unable to get along, I would rather invest more time and energy and integrate into a certain group. (Lonely)
However, with the growth of age, some people want to leave their lives in isolation. (Life).
False relationship, broken; Meaningless social interaction was interrupted.
For such people, leading an honest and clean life is the highest pleasure in life.
If you go alone, the external influence and interference will be reduced, but you can be what live high wants.
Do whatever you want, don't give in to others, get used to it freely, and know what you want better than before. (Freedom)
What you want is a free life, not a seemingly lively circle. It is inevitable that you choose loneliness. Lonely people.
Summary: When people reach middle age, people who understand will eventually choose to be themselves. People who live clearly basically have the courage and ability to look down on everything outside. A person does not feel inferior, but wants to escape from complex groups and live a simple and quiet life.
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