Between husband and wife, loyalty is a very important factor in maintaining emotions. If one of the spouses adds the other spouse’s colleague’s WeChat account, there are three most likely situations that may lead to this happening.

One is to learn about your partner’s stress at work through your partner’s colleagues. Of course, we all know that this is an extremely ideal, even a bit utopian idea. If a person wants to know about the other person’s work situation, he can do so through other colleagues. Why should he know by adding someone of the opposite sex on WeChat? If you really add a member of the opposite sex on WeChat just to understand your partner’s work status, how can you guarantee that the opposite sex will not live up to your trust? In this case, we will think that this person's EQ and IQ are worrying.

The second is to develop a good impression of your partner's colleagues. If one party discovers that the other party's colleague is the type of colleague he likes more during the contact with the other party's colleagues, he adds that colleague's WeChat with malicious intentions, and then waits for an opportunity to tease. Isn't the white scumbag in "Ode to Joy" a typical representative of this kind of person? When you have a girlfriend, you still take the initiative to have an affair with your girlfriend's friends. This is a manifestation of irresponsibility for your relationship.

The third is simply adding the other person’s WeChat account occasionally. If you find that your partner has added a colleague's WeChat account, don't rush to accuse them first, but find out whether they have had any confidential chats and interactions in private, and whether the content is deviant. If they just You have added WeChat but have no contact. It may be that you added WeChat just for your own reasons. In this case, do not misunderstand your partner.

But if they chat too closely on WeChat and have private contact after they join WeChat, then you should be more vigilant and don’t let yourself fall into a too passive situation. We should look for a partner who is serious and loyal to our emotions, rather than living with a hypocrite.