I am a girl, and I want to be the focus of the public.
You are a girl, but you have never worked as hard as a boy.
You are a girl, but you always bow your head and do nothing.
You once doubted your life and stumbled in this world like a headless fly.
You have been suffering from loss in love, you don't know how to cherish it, and you are spurned by others.
You know the truth of life, but you still haven't lived your life well.
You know that fat people don't have spring, but also poison them in the middle of the night, can't control their mouths, and complain constantly after they are satisfied.
As a girl, can you make a little progress, just for your future, work hard and exercise restraint? Is it so difficult?
I often hear such a voice around me: "If you are reborn in your next life, you must be a boy. Girls are really troublesome ... "Yes, girls have a lot of things to do. It's true. But I advise you, don't think so much, you'd better live your own life. Because I am a girl, I am proud of myself and like the feminine state. Don't always talk so much, people hate me. Don't act like a man with Lin Daiyu hidden in your heart, but be brave and strong.
As a girl, living high just wants to work hard. Don't think that being a funny diaosi can bring you some contacts, and don't think that women's nerves can really live happily. It's just a powerless rhetoric.
Girl, please succeed.
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As a girl, you should learn to respect yourself.
Self-respect is divided into occasions, relationships and conditions. It does not mean that all occasions, relationships and conditions need to be very cautious and focused. Friends, colleagues, family members and strangers have their own art of getting along; Master it better. It doesn't matter if a girl chats with a good friend and talks big or jokes when she is idle, but with a friend she just met, it is not recommended to say everything in her heart. One is for personal image, and the other is for the rapid spread of others.
Learn not to force anyone, including yourself. Whether it is love or friendship, you need to have a degree.
Be nice to yourself, not bring disgrace to oneself. You are human and have dignity. Don't make yourself too humble. Do you think it's really worth lowering yourself for others? Don't be too casual, pay attention to your lifestyle. If you behave casually, others will think you are a casual person. If you are hurt unnecessarily, you can't blame others. You didn't love yourself first.
2.
Everything you say should be valuable, as precious as your tears.
You are a girl, don't be full of unknown addresses. Others call you a chatterbox, and your complacency is a compliment.
You are a girl, don't promise others easily, just say some rotten branches out of thin air.
You are a girl, don't be ugly in mouth and pure in heart, those "fuck, fuck, silly …" try to say less dirty words. You should remember that when you are used to saying those pet phrases, sometimes you will come out unconsciously, and you will not care about the people and occasions around you, which will of course reduce the impression of others on you. So I advise you not to be inferior to your mouth. Everything you say should be valuable, as precious as your tears.
Girls, don't always curse and complain. Your bad habits will hurt yourself inadvertently. So, when you speak, think about it. Don't be so hot-headed that you don't know what you said to offend people, but you are still fighting and hurting your feelings.
3.
Develop good living habits, and no one will pay for your health.
From the health point of view, it is suggested that girls develop the habit of loving running and sports. A good figure and system are inseparable from daily exercise. Why do those stars have time to go to the gym but not to play games? For daily high-load stress and physical needs, doing more exercise can release the body, and it is also fun to take time off from work. In terms of diet, it is better to eat more grains, drink more water, and be light with less salt and oil.
Cultivate your hobbies. According to the survey, people with hobbies have a low overview of depression, because they can find suitable ways to vent, divert their attention, eliminate the influence of bad emotions on themselves and make their hearts full of energy. Even listening to music, singing, playing mahjong and playing puzzle games can alleviate their negative emotions and are worth promoting.
Good habits can make a person, and bad habits can destroy a person. Maintain a good attitude towards life, be positive and optimistic, and be open-minded and cheerful in everything. This is the basis of having good living habits. Be diligent in planning, set goals, do everything with careful planning, and don't work and study aimlessly.
4.
Learn to make up and improve your dress taste.
Every girl should learn to make up, just like you should learn to choose clothes, or how to eat, or how to drive. The same is true for girls, and it is also a skill. Many girls don't think how they dress when they go to school or school, and when you enter the university, many girls who dress up beautifully and flirt with each other will slowly change their minds. Even girls with slow fever will be alert immediately when they get to work, and the effect of beautiful girls is obvious. So, whether you are a woman or a shy little artist, please take care of your face. It also has something to do with how you dress. In fact, the person who knows best is yourself, so only you know where you look best and where you need to dress up to make up for it and make yourself more beautiful and better.
A person's clothing taste is not cultivated overnight, but a combination of life precipitation and long-term aesthetics. Different people must wear the same clothes differently. We can improve our dressing taste by improving our aesthetics, understanding our dressing style, paying attention to the texture of clothes, learning to match by hand and paying attention to the matching of single items.
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Confidence is as important as your blood.
Self-confidence, a positive attitude, is essential for girls. Napoleon once said: many people are not enough to rely on, you can only survive by yourself. Self-confidence is an optimistic and sufficient estimate that you can achieve a certain goal. Self-confidence means that you have successfully contacted and interacted with more than half of confident people. "Close to Zhu Zhechi, close to jet black." If you are always with people who are pessimistic and disappointed, you will also be depressed. If you often come into contact with open-minded and confident people, you will certainly become such a person. So make more friends with ambitious and confident people. Usually carry out self-psychological suggestion and constantly carry out positive psychological reinforcement on yourself. Say more encouraging words to yourself.
Confidence is as important as your blood. A girl, confidence will be your trademark. Confidence will be an important step for you to win applause. Learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and learn to face the world with a smile. The world abused me a thousand times, but I treated him like my first love. Of course, self-confidence is reflected in the combination of inner beauty and outer beauty. You also need to look in books and movies, read more successful cases and feel some condescending extravagance. There are many celebrities whose qualifications and external environment are not good before they become famous. Success does not depend on the outside world, but only on yourself. Such a subconscious mind helps to boost your self-confidence.
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Shut up, your figure will affect your life.
Girls, born with a more sensitive and fragile sense of taste than boys, are always tempted by food. The kind of food that makes your eyes shine is definitely poison.
On the university campus, everyone lives in the same dormitory. Girls say it is easy to lose weight. After graduation, perhaps very few people really lose weight. The giant in the mouth is a lie. One second of refusal, the next second will be eaten in your mouth. When I am satisfied, I comfort myself and seduce others.
I remember Shu Qi, a beautiful woman with a big mouth, once said in a program: "Being fat is a sin." Sun Li, a powerful actor, once said his weight loss experience in a talk show: "If you want to eat steamed stuffed buns, let your assistant buy them, open them and smell them, but just watch them and don't eat them." It's not that easy to keep in good shape. But as a girl, don't you have any self-control? How to control your life if you can't control your weight? The so-called 100 Jin girl has no spring, so the decision is not an armchair strategist. Believe me, as long as you lose weight, the whole world is yours.
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Boyfriends are dispensable, and close girlfriends are indispensable.
Sometimes, what a boyfriend can do can be done by a female friend around him. Why are there more and more homosexuals around us? It's just that after a long time, we know each other and can wear a pair of pants and say the same thing. Our ideas are surprisingly consistent, they are all suitable for life, and we don't like them, but we will be moved by love every minute. Homosexuality is not so dirty and despicable, but everyone has chosen a different lifestyle.
On the other hand, we should establish our correct views on love and friendship. There are several close friends who don't ask for each other. We are all lonely walkers, so we should learn to hug each other for warmth. Such friends need you to trust and accompany each other. You need to work hard, and friendship should learn to operate like love. Friendship can accept shame, but it can't tolerate meanness and selfishness. Don't ask for more, just want to understand you.
Love doesn't matter, boyfriend doesn't matter, friendship doesn't work, maybe they are the embodiment of boyfriend, and when the right person comes to your side, I believe that close girlfriends will be happier than their marriage.
7.
Your scars wait for time to heal, and no one cares about you. Never ask others for the comfort you want.
Living in today's world, the post-90 s young people will be depressed because of inner emptiness, lack of security, paranoia and obsessive-compulsive disorder. We urgently need a comforting tree hole and a good listener to accompany us. When you feel that the whole world belongs to you, but people all over the world are just passers-by to you.
No one cares about your life, no one cares about your scars, and all the pain needs to heal itself. No one has the obligation to listen and understand, so please don't expect comfort from others.
Everyone has their own things, not saying doesn't mean it doesn't hurt, and not listening doesn't mean they don't understand. No one can always be your trash can, no one can always pay attention to your life, we can warm each other at the right time, but in the end we have to go on on our own.
Remember, you are a girl, you should live a wonderful life.