Sincerity~! Friendly~! Cheerful~! Optimistic~!

Don’t be happy with things and don’t be sad with yourself~!

Relationships are an important part of our lives. If we do not have good interpersonal relationships, it will have a negative impact on our work, life and mental health. In real society, it is normal and understandable for certain ideological gaps to arise due to differences in personality, talent, life background, purpose, etc. If you can't get along with everyone at work or in life, that's not normal and you need to make self-adjustments and changes. People play different social roles according to their age, gender, occupation, position, environment, etc. When contacting people, different roles have different behavioral norms, so when getting along with different people, they have different requirements and skills. Here I will only express some opinions on the question you raised, that is, how to get along with colleagues.

First of all, you must consider others at all times and avoid being self-centered. To have a good relationship with colleagues, you must learn to consider problems from other perspectives and be good at making appropriate self-sacrifice.

To do a good job, you often need to cooperate with others. After achieving results, ask others to share them, and avoid showing off everywhere.

You should take credit for everyone's achievements. own. Providing opportunities to others and helping them achieve their life goals is crucial to good relationships.

Being considerate of others is also reflected in lending a helping hand to others when they encounter difficulties and setbacks. Good interpersonal relationships

are often mutually beneficial in both directions. All the care and help you give to others will be repaid when you yourself encounter difficulties.

Secondly, you must be open-minded and good at accepting others and yourself. Don't waste any opportunity to praise others. But it should be noted that you need to be measured and don't exaggerate blindly, which will make people feel hypocritical and lose others' trust in you.

Again, master the skills of talking with colleagues. When talking to your colleagues, listen carefully and give appropriate feedback. Listening with concentration represents understanding and acceptance, and is a bridge connecting the souls. When expressing your thoughts, you should be subtle, humorous, concise and vivid. Implicitness not only shows your elegance and self-cultivation, but also plays a role in avoiding differences, explaining opinions, and not hurting relationships. When giving opinions and pointing out other people's mistakes, pay attention to the occasion and use calm words to avoid hurting others' self-esteem and causing resistance. psychology. Humor is the spice of language that makes conversation lively and interesting. Being concise requires mastering what should be said when talking to others and not saying what should not be said. When talking to others, you must be emotionally invested, so that you can move people with your emotions. This is called vividness. Of course, to master the skills of expressing yourself well, you need continuous practice, constantly increase your cultural accomplishment, and broaden your horizons.

Finally, make time to mingle with your colleagues. It is also a good way to cultivate your own interests in many aspects and make friends through hobbies. In addition, exchanging information and discussing one's own experiences can harmonize interpersonal relationships.

Having good interpersonal relationships is an art. All people need continuous learning and practice to become proficient. I hope you can make a self-analysis based on your specific situation, so as to break through the fence of self-isolation, be open-minded, and establish a harmonious interpersonal relationship.