Some people say that studying abroad seems like a freshman. New schools, new cultures, new environments and even food are all new. If you can't adapt to it quickly, you will often have bad feelings when facing real life, work and study pressure and language and cultural differences. Many foreign students will often feel homesick, lonely, depressed and frustrated abroad. Many study abroad parties are sighing, as if they have fewer friends after going abroad. In the past, most domestic friends lost contact. Although there are more people in foreign universities than in China, they are basically superficial acquaintances, not real friends, and they are increasingly unable to make friends.

How to make friends when studying abroad?

Teacher Shao, who is studying in Zhongzhuo, Shaanxi Province, shares with you some ways and means of making friends:

1. How active is the school?

Networking is not about how many people you know, but about your ability to attract new friends. Excellent grades and a serious and responsible attitude will make others look at you with new eyes. Students who go to college abroad all have this experience. Knowing one more friend may be of great help to their grades and team work. Show your classmates your strength, a subtle speech and an excellent idea, and you will successfully knock on your friend's door.

2. Join a club:

At the beginning of each semester, every club will recruit new members in various ways. From study and work to hobbies, you will soon find interested clubs, and then introduce many friends who have the same hobbies as you. This is the best opportunity to meet new friends. Don't miss this opportunity!

3. Volunteer activities

Participating in off-campus volunteers can not only cultivate their high consciousness through volunteer activities, but also temporarily get rid of the pressure of school work, go deep into local communities and get in touch with local residents. It was a great experience.

take exercise

It's always boring to exercise alone, so it's better to find some friends to exercise together. There are usually many people in the gym who have group classes together. Let's sweat and cheer together, which will definitely increase friendship.

travel

The traditional tourism concept of China people is to take photos collectively at scenic spots. When they go abroad, they might as well experience a chic spiritual journey. Go on the road with a backpack and stay in a youth hostel. You will meet brave young people from all over the world. Although I may have seen it only once, it may all be beautiful memories in my life.

So, what kind of friends do you want to make?

Below, Mr. Shao, who is studying abroad in Zhong Zhuo, will share with you the contents of "six intransigence, seven intransigence, and four deep friendship" in the ancient China motto for your reference.

Six incongruities:

1, don't cooperate with people who have too many selfish desires, because they can't see what others are paying, only care about their own gains and losses and results.

Don't cooperate with people who have no sense of mission, because they aim at making money.

Don't cooperate with impersonal people, because you will be unhappy together.

Don't cooperate with people with negative energy, because they will consume your positive energy.

Don't cooperate with people who don't have life principles, because they think making money is life principles.

6. Don't cooperate with ungrateful people, because ungrateful people are bound to be ungrateful.

Seven don't pay:

1, you can't pay if you are unfilial to your parents!

People who don't know how to be filial to their parents are not worthy of your association.

2, stingy people can't afford it!

They are rude, outspoken and inconsiderate of each other. Such people often hurt others. How can they be friends?

3, people who care about each other can't pay!

Everything is haggle over every ounce, for fear of losing money, taking the lead and being narrow-minded. It seems that taking advantage can make them feel safe. What is the intersection?

4, people who don't know how to respect can't pay!

As the saying goes, it is impolite to come and not go. Everything comes and goes, you respect me one foot, I respect you one foot; It is also a drop of water, when spring comes. For selfish people who only know how to take, why should they be satisfied!

5, people who are good at flattery can't pay!

This generation is often have it both ways, selfish and the most dangerous person in life. You must not take it lightly. How can you know if it is good or bad when you meet it?

6, powerful and unprincipled!

A person has his own dignity and personality, whether he is a high official or a civilian, or a rich person or a poor person, all of them are flesh and blood. You can't look up and smell others, and you can't look down on others and make them grovel. Why meet people who are far apart?

7. People who have no compassion can't pay!

Either vicious or selfish, this generation is like wolves.

Four friends to make in life:

1. Make a friend who appreciates you, comfort you and help you when you are down and out.

2. Make a positive friend to accompany you and encourage you when you are depressed.

3. Make a friend to guide you, and volunteer to be your stepping stone to take you through the mud and fog.

4. Make a friend who is willing to criticize you, remind you at all times, supervise you, and let you find your own shortcomings at all times.