First, pinyin

Bad friends? [sǔnyǒu]？

Second, the source

In the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius' The Analects of Confucius "has three friends' benefits and three friends' losses: friends are straightforward, friends are tolerant, and friends are more knowledgeable and beneficial; Friends will be open, friendly, soft, friends will be destroyed and damaged. "

Explanation:

There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make friends with honest people, honest people and knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter on the surface, people who slander behind their backs and people who are good at rhetoric.

Third, examples

1. Make more contacts with virtuous people who can help themselves, and don't make bad friends.

You should make a clean break with those bad friends as soon as possible, and don't break up again.

The antonym of expanding information to hurt friends:

First, good friends? 【yìyǒu】？

Interpretation: friends who are helpful to their own thoughts, work and study.

Source: Spring and Autumn Yan Ying's "Yanzi Chunqiu Miscellaneous Twelve": "The monarch of sages has a beneficial friend and no minister who steals music." ?

A sage's king has a mentor and a friend, but no minister who indulges in pleasure.

Second, good friends? [Liyang]?

Interpretation: Helpful friends are talented and helpful friends. Now it often refers to friends.

Source: Xunzi's Theory of Xunzi's Evil Nature in the Pre-Qin Dynasty: "Although my wife is beautiful in nature and knows her heart, she must seek a good teacher and do things, and choose a good friend as her friend." ?

Although a person has good quality and good discrimination, he must find a wise teacher, learn from him, choose a good friend and make friends with him.