He didn't open his eyes and asked vaguely, "Girl, what's the matter?"
The wife said, "I just went to bed after feeding." At this point, I got up. Hey, I had a dream last night that you cheated! "
Hearing this, I felt a tingle in my heart. What rhythm? I haven't done anything recently. I opened my eyes, looked at my wife and sighed: "Alas, I don't even have time to cheat now."
The wife pouted, "I don't believe you don't want to cheat?" Do you mean that this couple know each other best? )
"Oh, I'll go. I really want to cheat. I want to derail every day. "
When my wife heard me say this, she snorted and scolded: "Men are so cheap, men don't have a good thing!" "
Damn it, in order to safeguard the dignity of the majority of men, I immediately retorted: "Women are good things. If women want to get better, men will go to men when they cheat?" (Now that I think about it, this sentence is still a classic answer. )
The wife rolled her eyes and scolded, "Get out, you cheat!" " "
With a bang, I slammed the door and went out, leaving me to get up humming.
During lunch break, Baidu had an affair.
Only then did I know the professional explanation of cheating. Cheating, originally a traffic term, was later cited to explain a social phenomenon after marriage, which is also divided into emotional derailment and physical derailment.
As for the specific explanation of cheating, there is psychological analysis, and age analysis is not much to say. We are not doing social research or marriage research, so let's talk about our views on infidelity as an ordinary person.
There is a great god on the Internet who summed up the reason why 10 man cheated:
1, that life is not harmonious (as everyone knows)
2, the work pressure is too great (find reasons for your low emotional intelligence)
3, loneliness (only hehe ~ it is best to have a few bottles of wine)
4, lack of understanding and care (a big man needs Mao's care, just a few bottles of river)
5. The wife is strong and capable (rather she is incompetent)
6, ideological differences (popular point is that men mix well and don't like knotted hair)
7, family economic disputes (this reason is a bit objective, who has not saved a few private money)
8, external influence (not afraid of thieves is afraid of thieves)
9, work and play (this is inevitable, just take part in accidental amusement, man)
10, Miss Youth (to put it mildly, you just want to hook up with young beautiful women)
During the period when I just started to work after graduation, a training class and a leader's speech were always imprinted in my mind.
The leader asked us, "Look at those people with rich nightlife, you are envious.". They are singing K and drinking. What is that? It makes people feel that life is enchanting. "
"In fact, these people can be described in one sentence. Only when you have nothing to do during the day can you have so much energy to spend the night at night. What is busy during the day is nightlife. As soon as they get home, they can't wait to sleep without washing their feet! "
At that time, when I was young, I liked to show off on such occasions. I echoed the leader: "Yes, it's true. I'm going home now, let alone washing my feet. I don't eat any food, so I go to bed. "
The whole class laughed ~
The leader said, "You are lazy."
Yes, now that I think about it, I just graduated, and I have to learn everything, but I can't do anything. Busy every day, I want to sleep when I get home. What about nightlife?
Sometimes I wonder, why did people cheat so little in the fifties and sixties? Even if many families work alone in the field, one person takes care of the elderly and children at home. Because the working and living conditions at that time were not as good as now, everyone was busy for their livelihood every day and had no extra thoughts.
The reason why I am derailed so much now may be because my work and life are relaxed and I am tired after a long time. I want to find something exciting and fresh. The ancients said: gentle and lustful. Going back to the top ten reasons for derailment summarized by Great God in the last article, if it is streamlined, it is to think too much and have nothing to do.
Many people don't know what to do except work, family and leisure. If you don't want to make progress, study or improve your work skills, just do something mindless, read online novels and watch TV, and then feel bored, just shake it and talk to people nearby.
Then two people who are both idle and miserable shake up or people nearby add, not to mention there are so many dating software now. They are all strangers. What else can they say? Don't say anything about mood, work, family, sadness. Don't talk to people around you, talk to strange netizens (you don't know what Taoist priests are like until you know them), which is just to pave the way for derailment.
People are not saints, and everyone is inevitably vulgar. When they see something good, they want to possess it. But it is because of reason and judgment that human beings can surpass other creatures and become the top of the pyramid. Of course, there are pyramids in this species because of birth, acquired ability and occupation.
For people who live at the top of the pyramid, cheating may be normal, because they have the ability and money to settle the following things.
For ordinary people, we just think about it. Never practice when you are not sure that you can handle everything. Always walking by the river, there are always wet shoes.
Life is not easy, do it and cherish it! Men and women are responsible for themselves and their families.