There are many reasons for this, which can be roughly divided into two categories: First, there are fewer people who are grateful now. In times of trouble, men need women's care and love, and the encouragement and warmth that care and love provide to men are also deep in men's hearts. But once a man achieves success, he will forget the hardship and warmth at that time.

Secondly, for women: In addition to having a good tradition of helping men through difficulties, some women also have the characteristics of being greedy and gossiping. We can only see the fact that when men achieve success, they abandon women. But behind this fact most people cannot see it. For example: most women who can help men overcome difficulties are very strong, and maybe the woman's family will also be very strong. We common people have a saying: How dare a person not bow his head under a low eaves. But this kind of forbearance and accommodation is not love, but a kind of accommodation. Then there is a limit to a person's forbearance, and as a man, he will be more purposeful in doing things. After I rose up, you still used the usual methods to suppress me, demand me, and even restrain me rigidly. What do you think this man will do? So for some things we should not just look at the surface, but look behind the scenes