Be principled when choosing friends

In our lives, in addition to family members, there is another type of people who have the closest relationship with us, and they are our friends. People say that friends are the incarnation of God, and I think this God must be just. How to choose friends is a very important question.

Dahlberg once said: It is better to have a powerful enemy than an incompetent friend. Yes, life is a road, and friends are the people who accompany us through this road. Perhaps because of this, I think friends play a role in objectivity in our lives. When we encounter a problem that makes us hesitant, we first think of asking friends for help. I don’t know if everyone is like this, at least I am. Because of this, I feel that friends have more or less understanding of our thoughts. Less will play a leading role, so we need decent good friends.

Of course, when choosing friends, we should also constantly examine ourselves. Bonner said: Friends meet under completely equal conditions, and this equality should first forget some of the actual existence. difference.

When someone is frustrated and lonely, if you become his friend, he will be grateful. No wonder the ancients said: Isn’t it a joy to have friends from far away? It can be seen from this that being a friend of a person is the best gift for him. You must know that getting to know someone depends on chance, understanding a person depends on wisdom, and understanding a harmonious relationship in the future depends on tolerance. We will feel lucky when we meet a like-minded friend, but we cannot blindly want to check other people's souls. For those who want to check other people's souls, Plato requires him to have three things: knowledge, kindness and courage. And do we really have all three of these things? I can honestly say that I have enough kindness, but I do not have extensive knowledge, and I lack enough courage, so I will not examine other people's hearts.

Churton Collins said that friends know us in success, and we know our friends in adversity. Therefore, we must face up to our friendship and observe our details from the details with cautious and subtle eyes. friendship, thus avoiding unnecessary problems.

Friends are divided into ordinary friends and real friends. Ordinary friends hope that you can accompany them for a lifetime, while real friends hope that you can accompany them for a lifetime. Although it is only a very short sentence, I think this is the best reason to explain a true friend!

Finally, I hope everyone understands that when we meet the most precious friends in our lives, we must be rational, because among the many absurdities in life, the first one to bear the brunt is the dislocation of friendship.

Please always cherish and always face up to your friendship!