A gentle and kind person is what people call a "good old man". This kind of good old person is generous in everything, and others will think you lack personality.

Making friends is essentially the formation of a small social group. Because of the same hobbies or similar life experiences, people will find common ground and form close connections. Friends will form small groups, making people feel that they are a member of this small group, creating a sense of belonging. A strong sense of belonging.

What kind of friends you have, you will feel that you are the same kind of person. This is the psychological suggestion brought by the sense of group belonging.

For gentle and kind people, they always consider problems from the perspective of others and rarely take into account their own feelings. Therefore, during the communication process, they rarely express their own opinions, and their personality cannot be revealed. Because he is too inclined to please others and ignores his true self, people around him will think that this kind of person lacks personality and is unattractive, and will naturally alienate him.

So the sense of existence is worse than that of ordinary people.