We don’t have to go out of our way to maintain friendships.

Many people have been lonely and complained that there are no close friends with whom they can make deep friends in the adult world. Most of them vaguely revealed that: I am unique and no one can understand me.

In fact, good friends are always simple, without too many requirements and transactions for emotional interests. Only when they are clean and pure can friendship last long. When we were young, as long as we went to the toilet hand in hand, we were good friends. When we grow up, we have worked overtime together and had dinner together several times, and we are good friends.

Everyone works hard and does not interfere with each other. Just be polite and have something to talk about when you meet. Don’t expect your friends to stay up late chatting with you until late at night, don’t expect others to shed tears of sympathy for your sadness, after all, no one fully understands another person; you don’t need to borrow money to test whether your friendship is sincere, after all We are all in the same circle, and other people's money will not be much more than yours.

The way adults get along is to respect each other. The premise of respect is that everyone has their own dignity. Everyone has a good side and a bad side. If you let people know that you are better than others, others will feel undignified. If others know that you are in embarrassment, you yourself will inevitably lose decency. If the appearance of two people is not equal, one is superior and the other is inferior, communication will inevitably not be equal, and friendship will not last long.

No one is as kind as they imagine, nor as sinister as they imagine. We hope that others will always treat us gently, and do not want to encounter rejection or betrayal. We can only maintain boundaries and maintain our respective safe territories.

The so-called friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the English translation happens to be A hedge between keeps friendship green, which appropriately illustrates that the maintenance of every friendship has boundaries. One of these boundaries is dignity and the other is interests. Good Friends happen to be the purest. We work hard and are safe.