In life, things are unpredictable! Life is full of ups and downs, and no one can guarantee that everything will be smooth sailing. There are always some ups and downs. When you are proud, your friends understand you; when you are in trouble, you make friends! When people know their faces, they don't know their hearts. People are divided by their bellies! When the spring breeze is prosperous, you can't see who is true and who is false. It's only one day, when you're having a hard time, that you really see some people.
When people are poor, it is best not to ask for these three types of people.
1. When you encounter difficulties, don’t ask those who are hiding. Even if you beg him, it will be in vain. Instead, he will mock and ridicule you. A person who really wants to help you will reach out to you and ask for help even if you don't ask him.
2. Don’t ask the people you helped. This kind of person has been favored by you before, but now he knows that you are in trouble. If he doesn't offer to help you, it's best not to ask him. When you really ask him, he will cry about poverty. His life seems harder than yours. Finally, you couldn't help but take out the money and help him.
3. Don’t ask people who usually look down on you. They are always ready to laugh at your jokes, but you are in trouble at this time, which just confirms their "dogs look down on others". Instead of helping you, they will treat your failure as a joke. In the end, you'll just get angry.
When you are poor, don’t make friends with these three types of people.
1. Don’t make friends with people who have the same experience as you. You are in the same boat, and it seems that your fate is the same, but if you want to start a business and invest with him, this kind of person will not be able to keep pace with you when encountering difficulties. He will run faster than anyone else. If your career shows signs of success, he will try to push you out, work alone, and push you out at all costs for his own benefit. Friendship is so fragile when driven by interests.
2. Don’t make friends with people who are unambitious and self-righteous. They will flatter you on the surface but make fun of you secretly. After all, there are many people who are the icing on the cake, and few who are the icing on the cake. Stay away from those people who check their phones all day long and brag whenever they have nothing to do. They laugh at your studies and discourage you.
3. Don’t make friends with depressed people. This kind of person will collapse whenever there is any difficulty, and they will drink to drown their sorrows without thinking about how to work hard. Instead, he will pull you to vent his dissatisfaction with society. He always feels that everyone in the world feels sorry for him, and he will use this negative energy to infect you and make you lose your fighting spirit. Therefore, such people are far away from him.
Never do these three things when you are poor.
1. Don’t blame others. Nine times out of ten, things in life will not go as planned. Don't lament that things are impermanent. People will always encounter difficulties of one kind or another in life. When you encounter difficulties, you should treat it calmly and stay still. Attitude is the key to success or failure.
2. Don’t drink to drown your sorrows. "Using alcohol to relieve sorrow" will not only harm your physical health, but also kill your fighting spirit, blur your vision, reduce your judgment, and will only make you more decadent. You can cry, but you can't be depressed. Those who have never cried in the middle of the night are not worthy of talking about life!
3. Don’t do anything immoral and against your will. People can be short of money, but they must not be immoral! This is the bottom line of being a human being. If you cross this bottom line, you will fall into a situation of no return! If you do something immoral, even if you get rich, one day God will make you pay twice the price. Those who have no intention of making money will not end well. People watch while doing things. When they do things, they must be worthy of their own conscience! If you are poor, don't do anything unfair! Poverty is not a problem, so I am afraid of poverty. If you have a life, you will have money! The most you can do is beg for food on the street, and you will always stand out if you die! Remember: good will be rewarded with good, evil will be punished with evil!