Introversion = bad personality, which is the view of many people, seems to have become a "conclusion."
Indeed, introverts are not good at talking and communicating, and are often in a lonely state. However, people's social attributes make them want to be accepted, affirmed, respected and appreciated by others, and they are eager for communication and blending between people. Therefore, introverts seem stiff and closed on the surface, but their psychological wishes are very open. Therefore, introverts are often in a contradictory pain.
Many books on psychological adjustment and social skills talk about how many introverts have overcome introversion. Although these books are different in specific content, one thing is the same: they all deny introverted personality and overcome introverted personality.
In fact, as far as introverted personality itself is concerned, it should be regarded as both advantages and disadvantages. It should be neutral and should not be labeled as "hateful" or "bad". However, many introverts hate their introversion. They hate being withdrawn, unsociable, afraid to show themselves in public, and timid, as if all their troubles are due to introversion. As we all know, introverted personality is just a representation, and the essence behind it is their lack of self-confidence, lack of courage, poor communication, thin skin and so on, while introverted personality is only the externalized form of these problems, and its core is inferiority. Therefore, only introverts who lack self-confidence will have a negative attitude towards their introversion. In other words, their denial of their introverted personality is essentially a denial of themselves.