It can be clearly said that a choice without choice is not a choice.
To answer this question, you must first know what is a lifestyle and what is a choice. The main core of this question is: Is people's lifestyle "chosen" or "chosen"? People will always face many choices in their lives, but sometimes they can't help themselves.
1: what lifestyle?
Lifestyle is a concept with a wide range of contents, which includes people's values, morality, aesthetics, and aspects related to these ways, such as clothing, food, housing, transportation, labor and work, rest and entertainment, social interaction, and dealing with people. The lifestyle mentioned in the question should refer to the personal life mode determined by individuals based on their own value judgments and value choices. To a certain extent, the individual's life style will also be influenced by comprehensive factors such as the outside world.
two: what is a choice?
selection means selecting, choosing or making a decision, and making a judgment among several existing schemes or options, but the prerequisite is that there is a choice and the option is established. It is easy to understand that you have a choice, that is, different options are optional and the options are established. The establishment condition of options is that options are equivalent to each other and difficult to choose. When A and B are on the same balance at the same time, you can't have your cake and eat it. You use your personal world outlook and outlook on life as a bargaining chip, which eventually causes the balance of fate to tilt in a certain direction. This is the choice.
So can you really choose your lifestyle? What I want to say is, yes, and now you are your personal choice.
why do you say that?
People are born unfair. Some people are born healthy, while others are born disabled. Some people are born rich, while others are born poor. That's right. From the moment of birth, we can't choose for ourselves. Where and when we were born are all arranged by fate. Life has never given us too many opportunities to choose. It is very precious to make a choice.
Lifestyle is one of our few choices, or the lifestyle itself is a choice. Even if everyone has a different starting point, the precious fairness is that we have equal opportunities to choose. Some people are blind in both ears, some people are indignant, some people are Beethoven, some people are also rich children, and some people are notorious, but some people have benefited one side of the land.
Life is a choice. Whenever you choose persistence between persistence and giving up, it's your choice. Whenever you choose tolerance between discrimination and tolerance, it's your choice. Whenever you choose goodness instead of evil between kindness and evil, it's also your choice! Don't underestimate these small moments. It is these small moments that have made you who you are. Along the way, how many good deeds you have done, how many evil deeds you have done, and what achievements you have made are all the results of your step-by-step choice.
Time is short. When the goal we want to achieve in life cannot be achieved and the existing conditions are not enough to support our ideals, we should not start to doubt ourselves at the first time, but should think about how to create conditions for ourselves and strive for more choices! Life will never be smooth sailing. What's important is that in every ordinary day, whenever our self-control is challenged, we choose to persist or compromise, because life is countless moments.