1. No one will become what you think is the safe haven in this life. Only you are your last refuge. No matter how dilapidated or simple it is, it is better than living under someone else's roof.

2. First of all, you must be able to replace anyone, and then consider that no one can replace you.

3. The best revenge is not hatred, but indifference from the bottom of your heart. Why bother to hate someone who has nothing to do with you.

4. It doesn’t matter if you just lose a game that you think you have a chance to win, but if you don’t even know where you lost, then you will probably lose to the end in the next few decades. . So please remember, know yourself and the enemy, and you will never be defeated.

5. Business is business, and friendship is friendship.

6. You come to work to make money, not to make friends. If you can make friends, it will be a surprise. If you cannot make friends, it is normal.

7. It is very important to keep a low profile now. Do your own performance well and let others comment. If your own performance is good, someone will naturally become your partner.

8. The road must be walked step by step by oneself, the hardship must be stuttered by oneself, and only by cramping and peeling off the skin can one be reborn. Other than that, there is no shortcut.

9. There can only be one relationship between people on the same thing at the same time, otherwise they will be emotional.

10. A bodhisattva heart and a diamond method are the attitudes you should have towards your friends and the people you care about.

11. Showing off self-esteem in front of money and love is the stupidest thing.

12. Stay calm, don’t vent or accuse, and he will always owe you.

13. What you have said cannot be taken back or compromised, otherwise you will be a person who can be bargained with and you will have endless troubles.

14. After time, we no longer choose to be together because you are as beautiful as a flower, nor because I have a successful career. It is just a simple habit of being with you.

15. Men hope that their wives will be their wives and their lovers will always be their lovers. Like two planets that always remain 30,000 light-years apart, running in parallel and never intersecting.

16. Why get married? Isn’t it because life is not easy, and you need to find a teammate to share the same boat.

17. Transaction is not a derogatory term. Isn’t everything in this world a transaction? The so-called well-matched, talented and beautiful couple, don’t they all mean equal transactions?

19. After so many years, although many things have changed, you are still by my side.

20. Why do you want to spend your whole life for your husband and children? You don’t call this love, you call it pleasing.

21. Take money from others to eliminate disasters! We must always care about our customers, experience their pessimism and happiness, and stand on the same front with them.

22. What I mean is that you are concerned about the wrong place. It is somewhere else. Where you thought there was no problem, there is a big problem instead, and it is right in front of you.

23. Making the most money in the least time is efficiency.

24. I don’t care whether it is a big company or a small company. The one that gives me more money is a good company.

25. Let me tell you a few more things that I think you need to pay attention to when you are new to the workplace:

(1) You have to find your companion, a companion you can trust. But you can't rely on him, because your companion is likely to be transferred or change jobs first.

(2) For every customer who has purchased something, you must remember their characteristics and preferences, leave their phone number and email address, and then provide them with precise consultation based on their characteristics, rather than indiscriminately The mass sending treatment.

(3) Have you ever thought that you have considered all the technical aspects, so why don’t they follow it? Because people, remember, in the final analysis, all consultation questions are It’s a people problem. Think about the people in the entire project chain. Whoever’s cheese you touch will be the problem.

26. Treat customers with ease and relaxation, understand them and consider them, but consider them appropriately. We are not angels, the only thing we are interested in is their wallet.

27. I am not snatching the case in your hand. I can snatch it away, which means that you have not made it leak-proof. Only by knowing how to die can you avoid making the same mistakes again.

28. If you are going to squeeze into the subway, please put on a pair of comfortable and sturdy shoes and clothes. This can save you a lot of energy and time, and also avoid a lot of embarrassment.

29. Once you start working, it is equivalent to opening the door to the game. You have to find your companions. You can trust your companion, but you cannot rely on him. You need to know who your superior is and what his hobbies and interests are. Because what everyone likes most is often his weakness and the most easily exploited breakthrough.

30. Have you ever thought that you have considered all the technical aspects, so why don’t they follow suit? Because of people. Remember, all consulting issues are, in the final analysis, human issues. Think about this whole project, the people in the chain, whose cheese you touch, the problem lies with them.

31. Don’t think that he is surrounded by those young and beautiful vases at the company’s front desk. The vases are not offensive, and the most dangerous thing is to be lively and vigorous.

32. From now on, this work is completely over. Don't do anything the client doesn't ask you to do, don't give the client a free lunch. You're charged by the hour, and it's not cheap.

33. Data is dead. How to arrange and combine the data to derive conclusions is alive.

34. The more difficult the case is, the more enjoyable the process must be.

35. Before actual combat, it is necessary to rehearse to eliminate the possibility of any surprises. You will have a deeper experience at work in the future. No one cares about your so-called special situation, and no one has the mood or time to listen to your explanation. If something goes wrong, then it must be something you didn't do well.

36. If no one hires you, don’t help them solve their problems. It won’t do your bank account any favors and it won’t lead to success.

37. First, never make any promises. Second, once you make a promise, you must keep it.

38. Everyone is rushing for their own future and happiness. No matter whether it is blind or not, it is effective or not. No matter how close the people are, they are willing to take the time to listen and sincerely give you some advice. It is already a blessing. Big face. The rest will come and go in the wind and rain, and you must go on your own. In this case, no matter how much you think about it, you might as well go out.

39. The hardest part of all things, work, travel, decoration, is the beginning. Once you take the first step, the hardest part of the whole process is actually over.

40. From my divorce to now, I have learned one thing: face is the hardest thing to let go of in the world, but it is also the most useless thing. The key here is what we think. Rather than living in the eyes of others.

41. There is no next time in one’s life. We can't just make do with this life and make do with it. It's not like going out for a meal. This restaurant is not good this time, so I'll make do with it and try another one next time. You understand the truth. But everyone is making do. I spent my whole life just like that.

42. Why should I wake up? It’s very painful to wake up.

43. The best way to lose something is to keep it.

44. Most people in this world work so hard, including you and me, just to give some color to those who have underestimated and humiliated us.

46. The more difficult the problem is to solve, and the more serious the problem, the more ruthless it is to deal with it from the very beginning.

47. You are no longer young, and you can no longer ride the ferry of life by brushing your face. For your next love, your next marriage, your next man, you have to be a useful person. When people come to you, they want to see if you have a paddle in your hand first.

48. There is a way out for everything in this world, and that is to let it go. Things are already like this, what else can be done.

49. I finally left the big house that had housed my entire youth and thought it was a refuge. I don’t know what the future will be like, as mountains and rivers come and go, but at least I am going in the direction of the sun. The past shrouded in time will gradually fade away, and I will not look back.

50. Relax a little, take it easy.

You will feel that it saves a lot of effort.

51. Ensuring your own good health is not only for yourself in modern society, but also for the sake of your relatives and friends. In order to disturb others and occupy their time as little as possible, this is a necessary discipline. Seeking death yourself is maliciously occupying other people's time, and it is a sign of lack of education.

52. Do you need to give yourself to a good person? Getting married doesn't mean buying a refrigerator. It's quiet, energy-saving, and has a lot of space so you can move it home. I'm afraid of getting divorced, of going to the doctor indiscriminately when I'm sick, of being afraid that no man will want me, of being alone all my life.

53. I asked myself why I was so afraid of being abandoned by him, afraid of losing this family, and afraid that Ping'er would become a child of a single-parent family. Is there any other reason? I don’t know how to describe it. It’s like if you throw a fish into the desert, do you think the fish is afraid? This home is my arena, the winner will be the king, or the blood will be spilled on the spot.

54. When two people are together, the one who makes rapid progress will always get rid of the one who stays still. Because human nature is to hope to explore more about life, the extension and connotation of life.

55. In the future, no matter when you want to drink, whether you are in trouble and need to be solved, or whether you are just hanging out with nothing to do, as long as you call me, let alone Hong Kong, even if you are I will also fly to Antarctica to find you right away.

56. I will start to accept other people. This page of my story with you will be over from now on. The so-called "turning back and finding the right shore" should be like this.

57. What comes and goes is a good thing. What is called unilateral contribution? It is called sacrifice. How many things can a person sacrifice? Once he sacrifices it, it is over and there is nothing left.

58. Comfort and consideration are the attitudes that have nothing to do with oneself.

59. Although our family often has conflicts, we have never doubted our love and attachment to each other. I think you should understand what I'm saying. Many of you here should be of my age, and we all grew up in such families. Although our family may quarrel, quarrel, and fight, we know that we will never break up, because when we think of this family, we feel very warm and at ease.

60. Waiters and salespersons, I never thought that I would become one of them. It was as if I was born as Mrs. Chen. In fact, after I was so proud, I forgot the way I came, and I decided After that day at work, I witnessed that I could be as humble as the dust, and I witnessed the plasticity of life.

61. When he said those words, he was so cold to the point of freezing. I couldn’t believe that he was the same man who I had entrusted with my whole life with joy and confidence.

62. Getting married and having children is like a poisonous apple that a man tricks a woman into eating. It took me eight years from the first taste of sweetness to the time when I almost died from the poison. I am not afraid to admit it shamelessly, until death is imminent, I still had a bit of luck in my heart, thinking that he would wake up at the last moment.

63. I didn’t pay any attention to this mature woman who was unremarkable from her clothes to her appearance. I thought my opponents would only be those charming young girls who thought men abandoned their wives and children. The reason can only be that she is moved by beauty.

64. All you talk about are material conditions. Do you think this is the reason why I don’t want a divorce? I come to you again and again, and I beg you because I can’t let you go. I can’t bear to leave this family, and I can’t bear to let Ping’er become a child of a single-parent family!

65. Only by walking at the forefront of the times, at the forefront of the team, and becoming people’s followers can you shine forever. lofty.

66. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that marriage will happen naturally after love matures, but they don’t know that marriage is just a way of life. Everyone can get married, it’s very simple. But love is something else entirely.

67. There are advantages to being low-level. People are embarrassed to make things difficult for you. As long as you behave obediently, you can get by. Once you get high, countless people will come up and insist on swordsmanship with you. Why don't you do it? They come up to you, you take action? Kill a few of them, and they say you are ruthless and ruthless, and there is no point in wandering around.

68. My destination is health and talent. After all, the only thing a person can trust is himself, and the only person who can be proud of him is himself. What destination do I want? I have found myself. I am where I belong.

69. He said he would support me.

70. When two people are together, the person who makes rapid progress will always get rid of the person who stays still.