Tell a true story, there was a gangster who accompanied his friend to see a doctor. Because he was dissatisfied, he asked them to register for medical treatment, and he was full of alcohol, shouting insults and throwing stools at the computer. I left after reading it. After more than an hour, 120 pulled it back and stabbed it with a knife. It looks like the gangster who made a scene in the hospital just now. The injury is quite serious. He is in the early stage of shock. I stared at him while puncturing the central vein, but I didn't speak. He looked at me for a while and suddenly cried and said, please help me. That was my fault. I thought to myself, "This is a real newspaper. I still didn't say a word, just staring at him. I didn't know his heart was hairless. Finally, I finished infusion and was sent to the operating room. I told him, don't worry, a yard is a yard. This is the best time I have spent with such a person in so many years. I won't forgive you for what you did, and I won't delay my patients, but I still have to give you some mental pressure.

As a doctor, I don't want to see a patient who hit me, but I won't refuse to treat the patient who hit me, and I won't retaliate against the patient for personal gain.

My wife is a teacher of the people. One day, she found that the coins in her desk were always lost. After careful observation, she found that a pair of twin sisters were the most suspected. However, twins usually perform well and get good grades. She asked one of the little girls to ask indirectly. The little girl admitted her mistake and said, "I can't help myself when I see small change." The day after tomorrow, my wife called her mother and told her to pay attention to the correct concept of money, but her mother flatly denied that her children would do such a thing, and then complained to the school leaders that my wife wronged her children and made them feel inferior.

..... The punch, his heart must be cold. ...

My wife was particularly depressed and said to me, "how can I educate her children with this attitude?" I can't afford it. Can't I afford to hide? "

I told her: "you are misunderstood by your parents at most, and it is a trivial matter that our doctor is misunderstood and abused." Many doctors were beaten, and some doctors were even chopped and hacked to death by patients. " Then I told her a story.

The emergency doctor in our hospital made a house call to pick up a critically ill patient. He lives on the sixth floor. It was difficult for the doctor to carry the patient downstairs, so he asked the patient's son to give him a hand.

However, the patient's son came: "I gave you money, why should I carry it?"

One of the doctors lost his temper and replied, "If it weren't for my life, I wouldn't kneel down with that little money to save people like you!" " Now I'm saving your father. "

Difficult to get into the ambulance, the patient's son actually slapped the doctor, and later went to the hospital and health bureau to complain about the doctor. In view of the actual situation that happened that day, the hospital did not deal with the doctor and gave him a grievance award. The rule of our hospital is that any medical staff who are complained will be punished unconditionally by 200 yuan. After investigation, if the medical staff are really wronged, they will give 200 yuan money as a reward.

..... a slap may ruin the doctor's kindness. ...

A few years later, the doctor became the attending doctor of general surgery. One night, he received emergency treatment for a patient with hemoperitoneum. The patient suffered from multiple lacerations of abdominal mesentery and intestinal rupture due to a car accident. After several hours of emergency rescue, the patient was finally out of danger. After the operation was stable, the doctor said, "Shit, this bastard slapped me in the face and sued me everywhere. Today it fell into my hands. "

I said, "Then you are still trying so hard to save him?"

The doctor said, "Saving lives has nothing to do with grudges. If he wakes up and sees that I saved him, he will be ashamed that I saved him. "

After the patient recovered from hospital, he sent a banner to the doctor to express his gratitude. But the doctor just asked the doctor below to help him deal with it.

Later, he said, "I don't want to make friends with such people." It is my duty to save him. It is my freedom not to hand over such a person. First, he is not a man who respects his parents; Second, he is not grateful to others; Third, he is an impulsive person. When our doctor-patient relationship ends, we don't need any contact. "

... should I be wary of the next patient ...

Seriously, the cost of beating doctors in our hospital is too low. Sometimes forcing the doctor to kneel, sometimes forcing the doctor to sign a confession, etc., will really make many medical staff feel chilling. The hearts of medical staff are also fleshy, and medical staff also have parents and loving children. We can't expect them to smile and say: I love you after being beaten!

Although some medical staff have been beaten, they will still be worthy of their professional ethics.

There were ten doctors in ancient times. What is the status of doctors now? Save lives, cure treatable diseases, and save treatable people. You regard him as a savior, but these people wave to his savior. I got emotional afterwards, and then all kinds of things went away. Let me give you a real example. A doctor met a patient with cardiac arrest on his way off work, and the correct cardiopulmonary resuscitation persisted until the arrival of the ambulance, and the patient was saved. Well done! The patient's son came to the hospital all the time. Why didn't he go to see a doctor? Why is there no full-time waiter in the hospital? Why did the doctor examine the patient? Can't he diagnose with a stethoscope? This is medical ethics corruption, and this is cheating family members of money. One of our doctors came out and advised him to keep his voice down. Son, this can stop. He grabbed the doctor by the neck and beat him. Later, the doctor asked the patient's wife, don't you know me? I saved your wife in the street at first. Do you know what the old lady said? The old lady said, I know you. I recognized you when you came out. You saved my wife. Yes, but why did you educate my son to be a doctor? It is your duty to save lives. That's what you have to do. Why don't you keep it? We came to your hospital to see a doctor. Why not serve well? We are very dissatisfied with you now. At that time, our doctor was too angry to speak.

To sum up, why are there so many malicious injuries to doctors now? Dare you refuse to see me? If one day the law allows doctors not to treat malicious injuries and establish a medical blacklist, these ungrateful people will know what pain means, and only when it hurts will they know their mistakes. Why do you want to create a credit file? Why set up a prison? Is to let people who have made mistakes know that they have made mistakes. The measures taken against the wicked should not be indulgence, but strong punishment can make them afraid.

As long as it's not enemy of the state, sitting down is my patient, and I will try my best to help him see a doctor-the professional ethics of an old doctor!

Doctors are also very emotional, of course, they have their own emotions, but they will never do anything special for their own self-interest, but they can certainly have their own small means as long as they are not out of line.

Tell a true story. The children of the neighbors downstairs in Dr. Luo's hometown are all in their early thirties now. Let's call him Zhou Xiao. I grew up watching. Like me, I am also a doctor, working in the local city hospital in my hometown.

Once Zhou Xiao was on the night shift, his mother went to the hospital to bring him meals. Seeing that he was busy, he sat at the gate of the clinic and waited for him. Young patients may have severe abdominal pain and bad temper. Somehow, there seemed to be some friction between the two men, so he shouted in the consulting room, "What's wrong with you old lady!" " When Zhou Xiao heard this, he went over and asked him, "This is my mother. What can I do for you? "

The scene at this time is very embarrassing. According to the Northeast dialect, the patient is completely confused. Just say, "I'd better change doctors." I went out, but Zhou Xiao worked the night shift in the digestive department. Soon the patient came back with a Zhou Xiao expression and said, "It's like eating a smelly fly." Zhou Xiao deadpan, didn't look at the information in his hand, so he has been staring at him. After the patient apologized to Zhou Xiao's mother, Zhou Xiao smiled and said, "Come here." To diagnose him.

Psychologically, if the patient has had a friction with the doctor, of course, he is unwilling to receive consultation, but the responsibility is that one thing is one thing and he will try his best to diagnose the patient.

Psychologically exclude you, but you are still my patient.

Doctors are human beings and have secular desires. One day, there were a lot of patients, including in the morning and several operations in the afternoon. It is common for doctors to work overtime from morning till night. Doctors are really busy. It is really difficult to be kind to every patient.

Besides, not all patients are so sympathetic. I don't know if you have seen Mind. In one scenario, the doctor treated a tumor patient and told her that the condition was complicated and surgery was not recommended. The female student who was practicing next to her asked the doctor if the patient could have surgery. The doctor explained that according to his experience, the patient's son had all kinds of hypocrisy and rhetoric, which would be very troublesome in the future. Later, the doctor accepted the patient, and the result was expected.

To tell the truth, as a doctor, the people I have met have experienced too many things, and their eyes are sharp enough. This kind of hypocritical hooligan who likes to stand at the highest moral point and accuse "you have no medical ethics" and does not believe that doctors only believe hearsay, expect too much and demand quick results, and so on, all kinds of patients have it. Of course, there are also many patients who give us great warmth, make us cry and give us confidence to continue.

You ask me, as a doctor, do I want to see a patient who hits me because of contradictions? I can tell you, most doctors, when this patient sits in front of us, we won't even remind him. At the moment, you are just a patient, and I am just your doctor.

No one is cheap enough to see this kind of patient, but if you have to see this kind of patient, there is no way. If you hang up the number, you have to watch it. However, I will be cautious. I will sign my name, strictly abide by the rules and regulations of the hospital, never say a word, and never provide any convenience outside the system. If possible, I'd better record and video in case of emergency. When you meet this kind of patient, sometimes you will add some related tests. If there is a problem that is not found, you will bite it. If you don't do it, you will sign it and write the medical record clearly. For such patients, coming to the hospital may only cost more than others, because no one dares to be responsible for it. To tell the truth, I feel very comfortable when I meet those polite patients, and I am willing to communicate with them more.

If you want to answer: Do you? Of course, my answer is no! If I have a choice, I never want to see such a patient again! I don't want to show how noble I am. On the contrary, I think this is my truest idea. ...

About ten years ago, I transferred to a new unit soon. On duty at night, I picked up a middle-aged male patient in his 40 s and turned over the medical records. He was an old gout patient. Basically, every attack is treated with high-dose hormones. The disease is not difficult to diagnose. Tell patients that the disease belongs to metabolic disease, pay attention to diet adjustment and the harm of repeated high-dose use of hormones. The patient swears, wants this and that, and doesn't take my advice seriously at all. It happened that the pain symptoms were in the progressive stage that day, and despite the treatment, the pain still did not improve. My son came to the clinic and was scolded by various countries ... He has never been insulted like that, and he still feels unbearable when he thinks about it. Fortunately, I tried my best to restrain myself.

Since then, I have seen patients twisting their ankles intermittently in the hospital. After a while, I didn't see the patient again. Occasionally chat with colleagues, only to know that the patient died of lung cancer three months later.

Telling this story doesn't sound like gloating, but I will think in my heart, this is really self-inflicted.

Doctors are also normal people. And dignity and mood swings. For such patients, my heartfelt feeling is: never see them again! Even his seventh aunt and so on. Birds of a feather flock together! I believe that people with low quality and unprincipled principles will not be much better around them!

Of course, if a patient's life is in danger, I will do every step of the rescue work without hesitation, no matter what the rescued object has done with me, because this is my initial intention and professional ethics.

Emergency is a matter of life and death, and it will be treated. If the clinic is mediocre, it will be euphemistically recommended to other doctors or hospitals. Some patients' families really don't know whether it is good or bad. Once I was on the night shift and just took over, a patient (I am not a bed doctor) with acute leukemia complicated with gastrointestinal bleeding continued to maintain hemostatic drugs. Patients and their families have repeatedly asked to stop taking drugs, saying that they will lose patients if they lose again. I have repeatedly explained to them that stopping taking drugs may lead to repeated illness and even life-threatening. Said a lot, the patient's family said I was irresponsible and didn't think of the patient. I asked them to sign to stop taking the medicine, but they didn't want to sign, saying that I shirked my responsibility. Other patients' families don't like it, so they are advised to mind their own business. I am usually responsible for patients. They generally trust me, including many patients who are out of my control. I was really wronged and helpless that day. Finally, the patient's family pulled out the fluid themselves and only observed it dynamically. I didn't want the patient to suddenly spit out about 1000ml of blood at about one o'clock at night, so I quickly asked the nurse to stop bleeding and give blood transfusion to help the patient's family be honest, not to mention that I didn't do my duty and didn't think about the patient. Alas, some people really cry when they see a coffin.

1- ancient times

There are cases of rejection: the famous doctor Bian Que said: "Arrogance is no matter what, once it is cured, it will die;" Intellectual man fit and heavy wealth, two governance also; Food and clothing are inadequate, and three treatments will not heal; Yin and yang are combined, the dirty qi is uncertain, and the four are incurable; Ying Xing can't take medicine, and five treatments can't cure it; Believe in witch doctors, six are incurable. " Refusal to see a doctor has existed since ancient times.

2- Modern

First, in an emergency, doctors at home and abroad may not refuse to treat patients.

B, in foreign countries, such as the United States, you can refuse to see a doctor, but you must explain the situation (not in an emergency).

3- In China, the doctor law seems to say that you can't refuse to see a doctor. In reality, people often refuse to consult. For example, it is actually a euphemism for refusing to consult patients.

As a doctor, I will answer this question.

If you want to ask me if I would like to meet a patient who hit me because of contradictions, I can only answerno. If this patient hangs up my number, I can only say that I have to answer it, but it doesn't mean that I really let go of my bad feelings and went to the clinic as if nothing had happened.

Doctors are human beings, and people have the instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. If there is only contradiction, it is another story, but a person who solves problems by violence, sorry, I am not that noble, who can guarantee that he will not use violence again when he encounters problems in this negotiation?

Some people may want to say that you are a doctor and doctors should have medical ethics. At this time, it's time to put aside grievances and save a life. Why do doctors have to return good for evil? Why kidnap a doctor with medical ethics?

It is our duty to put on a white coat to heal the wounded and rescue the dying, but taking off the white coat, like everyone else, we are all mothers, wives and daughters, and ordinary people among all sentient beings.

The above is my personal opinion. Please leave a message if you have different opinions.