Ten years of life and death are endless. If you don't think about it, you will never forget it. A lonely grave thousands of miles away, nowhere to talk about. Even if we meet, we should not know. Our faces are covered with dust and our temples are frosty.
I suddenly dreamed of going home at night. Xiao Xuan window is being dressed. I care about each other silently, but I shed thousands of tears. It is expected that the heart will be broken every year, and the moonlit night will be short and loose.
-Jiang
I've always liked this word. Although it is only a eulogy, it has been deeply moved for many years, just like a myth, out of reach!
This is a eulogy written by Su Shi, a great poet in the Song Dynasty, to his late wife Wang Fu. This poem was written in Xining, Song Shenzong (1075), when Su Shi was a satrap in Mizhou (now Zhucheng, Shandong). The poet expressed his sincere love and deep yearning for his dead wife in the form of dreams. Poet/kloc-married Wang Fu at the age of 0/9 and lived with Su Shi in Beijing. Unfortunately, he spent two years in Zhiping, Song Yingzong (6575). ) The following year, he was buried in Anzhen Township, pengshan county, northeast of Meizhou, Sichuan.
Young Su Shi studied in Zhongyan and Huazang Temple, Qingshen County, Meishan City. And these two places are near the Green God Wangjiazhuang. Su Shi made a lot of friends all his life and had an unusual relationship with Wang Qingyuan. Later, I met Wang Fang's son Wang Yuan through Wang Qingyuan. (Wang Fu's brother) In this way, it contributed to the beautiful karma between Su Shi and Wang Fu. However, there is another folk saying about their marriage: Wang Fu's father, Wang Fang, is a famous rural tribute scholar. He wants to tell the wonders of his hometown (there is a natural fish pond at the foot of the mountain, and when tourists clap their hands, the fish will jump out together). At the same time, he also wanted to secretly choose a husband, so he invited a famous local young talent to name Wonderland. Many people lost the election, only Su Shi's title was ". Who knows that Wang Fu, who is hiding behind the curtain, is also entitled "Calling the Fish Pond" in chorus. Since then, the two have been soul mates and communicate with each other in silent love. So Wang Fu's parents chose Su Shi as their son-in-law, and they were inseparable after marriage. We won't talk about how Su Shi and Wang Fu met, but what is certain is that their later marriage must be very happy.
After Wang Fu and Su Shi got to know each other, they became a class capital that didn't leave all day. Born in a small family, Wang Fu is not only knowledgeable, but to Su Shi's surprise, she is very familiar with poetry books and has an excellent memory, and sometimes even Su Shi can't catch up. Su Shi said in Epitaph of Wang's Dead Wife: At first, he never said that he was familiar with this book. You watch Shi study, don't go all day, and I don't know if he can live. Since then, Shi has forgotten something, and you can remember it. Ask other books and you'll know a little. It was sensitive and quiet from the beginning.
In addition, because Su Shi is an outspoken person, there are no bad people in his eyes. As a wife, Wang Fu is also worried all the time. In Su Shi's daily communication, Wang Fu can reach the point of "not asking for details". For example, she "eavesdropped" the conversation between the guests and Su Shi behind the screen, reminding Su Shi to be alert to those in have it both ways. It can be seen that Wang Fu's advice to Su Shi sometimes reaches the point of criticism. The word "knowledge" is the highest evaluation of ancient scholars. Su Shi used these two words to describe his wife, which shows how much he respects Wang Fu.
Among them, Su Shi also wrote that Wang Fu often stopped his bad behavior: an official lived in Liu Xia, and the snow was not accumulated; The snow was good, and the grave rose several inches. Suspicion is the place where the ancients hid Dan medicine and wanted to send it. My late wife, Chong Dejun, said, "I won't send menstruation." Stop in shame. -"Collected Works of Su Shi" Volume 73 "My First Lady doesn't hide"
However, after Wang Fu's death, Su Shi seems to have aged a lot. I can often see the words "decline", "old age", "early birth" and "sparse beard" in his poems. Because of Wang Fu's death, Su Shi did not write poems for three years to mourn his wife's death in silence. Even at the risk of "bullying the monarch", he asked the emperor to change the examination rules. It can be seen that the degree of Su Shi's mourning after Wang Fu's death also reflects the depth of Su Shi's love for Wang Fu. The emotion between Su Shi and Wang Fu can be described as "showing the sun and the moon, learning ghosts and gods"!
"Jiangchengzi" is the outbreak of the pain of losing his wife in Su Shi's heart ten years later. "Ten years of life and death are two boundless", can such a poem not be touching? I think even a hard-hearted person will know how to cry after reading it.