Generally speaking, when you talk to a stranger, it is impossible to have a secret conversation with you because people are not familiar with you. At this time, you should learn to listen to others skillfully, then grasp the key words in the words, express your views appropriately, and try to find out the topics of interest to the other party as quickly as possible.

Take myself for example, I think I should be an extrovert. Sometimes I will take the initiative to chat with strangers and even make friends with them. I remember once, when I was working part-time outside, many people worked with me, but I didn't know anyone.

I don't even know where the canteen is when I eat. At this time, I saw a girl walking alone in front of me, so I went up and asked her, and the answer was that she was also doing this part-time job like me. Because she is probably the kind of person who is introverted and not very talkative, I will try my best to guide her in the process of talking to her.

After a period of conversation, I got a message from her words that she likes reading. Then I chatted with her along this topic. I gradually found that her words were obviously much more, and she kept saying it. I listened carefully and responded appropriately, indicating that I was also interested in her topic. In this way, we soon became acquainted.