This door retains our last fantasy in the smoke and the last gentleness in the cold rain.
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Perhaps, friends are like this, and there is always a door that is difficult to open in the middle. Whether it's a bowl of liquor, life or death, or insincere brotherhood, we are just arcs A on different tracks. There are many ups and downs, but we can never be perfectly integrated with any one.
A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the ancients have long known that there is an insurmountable last barrier between friends. So people always try to hide themselves, carefully adjust each other's distance, and carefully modify the smile on their faces. In this digital age, friendship seems to need to be calculated repeatedly like an equation. No wonder some people say that making friends is too tiring.
True friendship depends on feelings. No matter how far away from Wan Li or close at hand, you can feel each other's "heartbeat" with empathy. Doors exist, but what are the disadvantages? A woodcutter and a pianist, different classes and different roles, can still play eternal mountains and rivers.
If friendship is silent, can the beautiful nightingale break this silence? False friendship, if the sea wind blows gently and the waves are silent, it will disappear. However, sincere feelings can burn eternal memories in the depths of the soul, and even in the bleak night, they will be integrated into the singing of the stars with the most beautiful rhythm.
We don't need to deliberately keep a distance and calculate the scale. As long as friendship is dull, it can radiate the most touching brilliance. Let's not break that door. A true confidant can understand each other's thoughts even through the door. Isn't this unconscious induction more indescribable than taking in everything in a glance in broad daylight?
That door is a hazy figure under the umbrella of Xiaohong in the misty rain, and the eyes are looming in the dim candlelight. We may never see its true face clearly, but it is this door that keeps our last fantasy in the smoke and the last warmth in the cold rain.
Perhaps, friends are like this, sitting on both sides of a door, each with its own life and world. It is this seemingly indifferent door that conveys the most precious friendship, gives us comfort on this side of life and gives us hope on the other side. Perhaps, friends are like this.
Friend, did you find it?
"Isn't it a pleasure to have friends coming from afar?" A bosom friend, this life is enough.
Playing rough friends in childhood adds a lot of fun to your life; Friends in the process of learning make you take fewer detours on the road of learning; Close friends at work make your day sunny. When you are sad, she will try her best to make you happy; When you are happy, she will silently bless you and share your happiness with you. This is a friend.
There are many hardships on the road of life. There is a little wear and tear here, and a hole is scraped here. Great winds and waves will always follow. Without the silent support and encouragement of friends, it is impossible to complete this difficult journey alone. A friend is an object to whom you can talk about your pain, and a friend is a harbor where you can have a short rest, where you can be free, open your heart and show your integrity.
No one doesn't need friends, and no one doesn't have friends unless he is self-enclosed and isolated from the world. Li Bai put it well: "Peach Blossom Pond is deeper in thousands of feet than in Wang Lun." With such sincere hospitality from friends, although there are not 10,000 hotels, everyone is drunk without alcohol. What should I say to my friend's yearning for nothing?
A "friend" communicates the long-lost line between people; The voice of a "friend" blends the hearts of people all over the world, and the whole Chinese nation is thriving because of the voice of a "friend".
In the song "Friends", it is sung that there are many friends and the road is easy. The spiritual line between friends is like a huge net, covering the land of the motherland. Although they are thousands of miles apart, their hearts are still connected.
I won't give up my friend because of a mistake. I believe you won't, and neither will she. People are honest and relative, and there is no absolute right or wrong. You will forgive your friends, and your friends will forgive you. No one can understand the tacit understanding between them.
Friends are the sky, they are the stars. The sky contains all the stars, and the stars decorate the sky, making the starry sky more beautiful and the stars more dazzling.
A friend is a tree and he is a bird. Trees provide shelter for birds and protect them from the sun and rain; Birds bring more life to trees. The chirping sound and the brisk figure swaying among the leaves are so charming.
Friend, friend, I am destined to be without you, and you will be my life partner, I am sure.
Close to the blue room, far from the boss.
What is a friend? Guan Bao is a friend, a fair-weather friend is a friend, an eight-worship friend is a friend, an evil friend is a friend, a friend of life and death is a friend, a friend of General Cape is a friend, a friend of mountains and rivers is a friend, and a friend is also a friend. As the ancients said, making friends with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's home and staying in Mika for a long time; Walking with the wicked is like entering the abalone house, which stinks for a long time. It is a fact that people near Zhu Zhechi are black.
Intimate friends are humble and outspoken friends, friends who forget their righteousness when they meet, and friends who share weal and woe. However, "China holds our friendship, and heaven remains our neighbourhood" is a friend, "Chunshu in Weibei, Twilight in Jiangdong" is a friend, "Peach Blossom Pond is deeper than thousands of feet, not as deep as Wang Lunshen" is a friend, "Luoyang relatives and friends are like asking each other, a piece of ice heart is in the jade pot" is a friend, "Black wind blows rain and blows cold window" is a friend, "* * You are drunk." Yes, friends are always by your side. Friends, indeed as expected "universally applicable".
Zhuangzi. "Mountain Wood" has a cloud: the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship between villains is as good as ever. This statement is very good. Today's whirling world is a mixture of dragons and snakes. A fledgling person who has never crossed the sea will inevitably be indiscriminate and will be commensurate with his brother in a few words. So in a few days, it was "like eating abalone and stinking for a long time." As a result, encountering unexpected troubles is like taking chestnuts from the fire without knowing it, being used by people, and even though they don't want to, they become drunken lambs and just eat their navel. Alas!
Naturally, some people are conscientious, careful and always concerned. They are far from their own voices, away from their own lackeys, close to their own lofty mountains, and worthy of the humble people. In the end, they were strengthened because of their height, and they were subtly influenced by their ears, becoming "no shoes, no crowns for Lee".
So philosophers warned: Be careful when making friends. There must be no harm, but there must be no prevention. As the saying goes, "it is difficult to draw a tiger's skin, but it is difficult to draw a bone." He also said that "Ma Quan knows far, and people have seen it for a long time." Only by getting along with each other for many days can we break its quality. If you find that your friend is a fox dog, you must pull back from the cliff and wake up in time. Otherwise, "a blind man riding a blind horse will find it difficult to ride a tiger in the middle of the night". If you make another mistake, it will be "small steps and quick steps"!
You should think it over.
friend
Friend, what a familiar and lovely word it is. Friendship is abstract and implicit, while friends are concrete and real. Because we have friends, we feel the joy of growing up; Because of friends, we have the madness of youth; We have an open mind because of our friends.
Friend, what a sincere person! People can't grow without their parents and elders, but they can't grow without their friends. It is an alternative kind of warm care outside the home, and it is the most vivid color to decorate life. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen you emerge in Engels' life? You taught him Marx's thoughts and made world capitalism brilliant. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen you in Du Fu's and Li Bai's dreams, so that the poets of the last century wrote so many immortal poems for a generation of poets, leaving an immortal legacy for China's poems. Ah, my friend, how many times have I seen your soul in Boya's piano, which makes it difficult for two very different people to say a word. Ah, my friend ...
A friend is a clear spring in the desert, which brings you not only thirst quenching, but also sweetness and coolness. A friend is a breeze in the hot summer, which brings you refreshment and comfort. A friend is a piece of charcoal on a cold winter night, which makes you feel a warm heart; Friends are eternal street lamps, which illuminate your way forward and guide your direction. ...
Once upon a time, there was a story that two candidates who went to Beijing to take the exam became friends on the way and booked a three-year visit to the Li family. Three years later, the Li family set off for a day, waiting for another fan, but Fan arrived late. Mother Li said that after three years, people may have forgotten. However, Li thought his friend must be late and asked the slave to go to the village entrance. Sure enough, Fan was robbed as soon as he went out, but he kept his oath and chased the Li family all the way. Friends are very excited when they meet. Mother Li also burst into tears and said, "My son has such a friend, what else can he ask?" Friend, what a great and immortal word!
Friends are always in your mind. Fish and water are like this. Fish said, "Friend, you can't feel my tears because I am in the water." Water said, "friend, I can feel your tears because you are in my heart." Only true friends can communicate with each other, and only with a close friend can you open your heart.
Maybe one day you will lose money, family and so on, but you will never lose friends. Because only you exist, friends are the sunshine in your life, and care for you with his warmth every day, forever!
Petrifaction Xinyu
I always thought I was sad, nothing like others, even making friends. No real friends to talk to. Maybe it's all my fault. I always ask too much.
Sometimes I think it would be nice if I could write poems, and I can express my dissatisfaction in the form of poems like the ancients. But I don't have such literary skills, so I can't.
In my inner world, I think I hope some friends have their own characteristics, just like many flowers. Everyone will release their unique charm and light, which is unimaginable.
Maybe she should be like a lily, noble, pure and elegant, giving people the feeling of being so pure and clean. Although she is noble, she is not arrogant and makes people feel close. The distance between mind and heart is very close. You can tell her all your troubles, and she will share your happiness and troubles with you.
Maybe she should be like a rose, passionate and unrestrained. She gave you sunshine. The smiling faces set off by flaming roses are always particularly beautiful and brilliant. She has such charm that you can forget the pain and sadness. She tries her best to infect you with her cheerful mood and make you as high as her.
Maybe she should be like a carnation, always emitting a kind of tenderness and beauty like her mother. She knows you just as a mother knows her children. She has long understood the rain and snow in your inner world. She will help you out with the theme, be your teacher, care about you and don't want you to get hurt.
Maybe she is like wintersweet, proud of frost and snow. She won't comfort you softly like others. She will. She only thinks about how to make you happy. She has a quick mind. If you are wronged and hurt, she will let me hurt you, and the wronged person will help you vent. She won't be afraid to offend anyone, she will stick to her own style.
Or maybe she is just a flower without a name, as ordinary as dust. Or maybe she is simply a grass, a grass that may be blown away by the wind at any time. But whatever she is, I only know that she has a nice name called "friend". She will help you and won't hurt your friends. Share when you are happy; Friends who share the pain.
Flowers are beautiful, but friends are precious. I know there can't be perfect people in reality. Everyone has shortcomings. You can't always ask too much of others, or you will lose a lot, including friends. Just like me.
The road ahead is still very long. As long as I know not to get too much and communicate with people sincerely, I will have a friend as beautiful as flowers and pure as jade. Oh, not one, but many.
No one can accompany you for life. Many people in your life are just passing by, just passers-by who accompany you on your journey. But true friends, as long as they are sincere, are eternal.
I like you.
Hello:
I want to tell you a secret. That's "I like you".
I like you. Although you are not beautiful, a little short, a little black and full of pimples, I still like you because I see something in your eyes, something called sincerity. Every time I talk to you, I see you staring at me with sincere eyes, listening to me quietly and carefully, never interrupting me or changing my topic. I know you are listening to me attentively, and I feel it with my sincere heart, so I feel all this and my heart is warm, so I tell you that I like you very much.
I like you. Although you are too quiet and humorous and don't know how to make me happy with funny words when I am angry, I still like you. Because I saw something in your smile, called tolerance. Every time I am angry with you and ignore you, you always hand me a note and give me a sincere smile. I know, in fact, every time I play a little temper, but every time you tolerate me. I feel your tolerance with my heart. Slowly I also learned to tolerate others. Many people began to like to make friends with me. I know you helped me, so I still like you very much.
I like you, although I know you also regard me as your goal, I still like you. Because even if you surpass me, you will pat me on the shoulder and tell me "don't give up"; Even if we all fail in the exam, you will comfort me in turn. Don't be sad. I feel your concern for me with my heart. I know, in fact, when you did badly in the exam, you were more frustrated than me, but you always kept it in mind. But I lost my temper. You never cared about me, comforted me, encouraged me and told me to "work together and never give up". I was moved to tears by you. So I like you. I really like you.
I like you, because when I am sad and lonely, you will touch my head with your hand and make me happier; I like you, because when we have a lot of feelings after reading an article, when I look at you, you will smile and nod to me. I know you understand my complicated mood at that moment; I like you, because when I am with you, I always feel that the world is beautiful and sunny; I like you, because when I am very tired, you always lend me your shoulder; ……
I feel everything you have done for me; I feel your sincerity to me, so I like you because you are my most sincere friend.
People who like you
Friends with different meanings
A true friend dares to transcend the mundane and show his true feelings. Ruan Ji is straightforward, Xiang embroidery emphasizes righteousness, Ji Kang is wild, but he is a true friend.
Time: Si Mazhao era. Ruan Ji plays chess at Xiangxiu's home. When the endgame was undecided, Ruan Ji said to Xiang Embroidery, "I think you are so careless, you must be thinking about your notes on Zhuangzi. Let's make a bet! Whoever loses, please drink. " So they played for a long time. In the fierce battle, Ruan Ji's domestic slave rushed in angrily, ignoring courtesy and saying to Ruan Ji out of breath, "Sir, come back quickly! That old lady, she ... she's dead! " Hearing this, Xiang Xiu pushed the chess and said, "Heizong, go back quickly! Hurry up! Prepare the horse! " I saw the spoony Ruan Ji squeezing out two words from her closed lips: "Wait!" Holding Xiang embroidery and shouting, "Don't go! Play chess! " Until the end of this game, Ruan Ji laughed wildly: "Win! Bring wine! " After singing the wine, he suddenly frowned, cried with a loud cry of "wow", and exhaled blood through his nose and mouth. Seeing this, Xiangxiu immediately rescued him, sent him back to your home, and arranged all the funerals at home for him. No one can do that. This shows the importance of friendship. I have long heard that Xiang embroidery values righteousness and friendship. Today, when I saw it, it really lived up to its reputation.
Then, I heard the housekeeper's report: "Mr. Pei from Linhai has arrived! Sima Gong arrived! " All the dignitaries in the DPRK came, and four or five people carried out Ruan Ji, a weak and painful son. So the two men respectfully offered their condolences according to the rules. When the dutiful son was crying, the two men saw him with long hair and no mourning clothes, shouted "outrageous" and left angrily. Is it because of rudeness that you don't feel like a friend? They are not true friends, because they value appearance more than inner ones.
As night fell, Ji Kang came, holding an altar of burning spring in his left hand and a banjo in his right arm. He walked into the funeral home with such a detached attitude. The family glared and wanted to close the door. Ji went upstairs helplessly: life is just a process of existence and disappearance of a small matter. Nature gives me shape, toils me with life, stabilizes me with will, and rests me with death. Ruan Ji jumped out of bed, hugged Ji Kang, and wept with joy: "He who knows my heart is a gentleman!" " "A true friend should not be bound by etiquette.
They sat at the same table and talked bitterly about the so-called etiquette. When your father dies, they will cry and beat their chests. In fact, how many of them are from true feelings or true friends? As much as, then under the pool of wine and meat, call each other brothers; Look at each other coldly when you are poor. What is your so-called true friend?
Ruan Ji heard the sound of the piano in his sleep, and Xiang embroidery stood at the bedside, ignored by Ji Kang, who was not allowed by the secular world, and only expressed his condolences to Ruan Ji, who was sad. Two strings of tears flowed down Ruan Ji's eyes to his ears, rolled down the pillow and dripped into his heart.
Nonsense! Wild people are not real friends! Madness is external madness, but the inner meaning, true meaning and no false appearance are true friends. Ji Kang means that heaven and man are connected and he is the truest and most sincere friend in the world. Singing: What about the savage? Yizhen, a true friend!