Getting along with people is a skill, especially when you enter college. Friends from all over the world live in the same space. Affected by regional differences, everyone’s habits, methods, personalities, and hobbies may be very different

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So how to get along well with roommates from all over the world, I have the following suggestions

Learn to respect your roommates and communicate politely

Respect the differences between your roommates and yourself , roommate habits, do not look at roommates with colored glasses, including respecting the privacy of roommates, not discussing the rights and wrongs of a roommate behind his back, and not forming cliques to form small groups.

Take the initiative to communicate with roommates, get to know each other and build relationships during the chat.

Do not think of the dormitory as a home, but as a public place

Everyone may be very casual at home, placing things randomly and following their own rhythm and habits, but , In the dormitory, it is a place where you live together with everyone, so you need to demand yourself according to the rules of public places. For example, don't talk loudly when everyone is sleeping, don't leave your personal belongings around, don't touch other people's belongings, don't litter, don't make noise, etc., which reflects the qualities you should have in public places.

Do good personal hygiene

The dormitory is everyone’s “home”, so it is necessary to do good hygiene. On the one hand, it is to maintain the overall environment, and also to maintain the place that belongs to you. Good hygiene, on the other hand, is personal hygiene, such as washing, washing feet, etc. Although it has nothing to do with your roommate whether you are clean or not, almost no one likes to come into contact with people who are generally dirty, so do it well The premise of a relationship is that you have to be liked first.

Learn to seek help

Some time ago, I saw in the news that a roommate was killed. Therefore, when you find that your roommate has some psychological problems, it will be difficult to communicate smoothly with each other through language. When studying, you must learn to seek help from the school and counselors in time

Actively participate in group activities

College life is different from previous campus life. In addition to study, there are many social, There are various activities such as competitions. You can participate in some favorite activities with roommates who have similar interests and hobbies, and enhance each other's previous feelings during the activities.

Don’t take advantage of others

*** Living in the same space means that everyone’s daily necessities are inevitably put together. Don’t take advantage of others by not buying and using your roommate’s things. It's a small advantage, or after arriving in college, roommates in the same dormitory often go out to eat together, and treat guests when necessary.

The four of us in the dormitory were very harmonious at that time. There were roommates from Shanxi, Liaoning, and Henan. We had a tacit understanding at that time and never said anything about which region we were in in the dormitory or behind our backs. Well, it’s about getting to know each other and praising each other. For example, I remember one roommate praised her roommate from Henan for her excellent studies, because everyone heard that Henan is a province that takes exams well. The roommate from Henan was also very happy to share with us her impressive studies in high school. experience. The atmosphere and relationship in our dormitory are both very good. We often go shopping together, go to the canteen together, and eat snacks at the school gate together. If anyone comes back home, he will definitely bring us some delicious food from home.

I heard that everyone in the dormitory next door didn’t like a girl in the dormitory. For example, when everyone ordered takeout, she didn’t buy anything and said she wasn’t hungry. But when everyone bought it, she They would say: "Wow, it feels delicious. I'll take a bite. If it tastes good, I'll order it next time." Then I would eat several big mouthfuls, but never order it, and often just casually without asking. When asked, he would sit on someone else's bed and always say, "Yeah, I've run out of shampoo and I haven't had time to buy it yet. XXX, I'll use yours!" Sometimes he would even use other people's things in the dormitory without asking. , so everyone in the dormitory next door doesn’t like to have contact with her.

The above are the suggestions I give you based on my personal experience. I hope it will be helpful to you.